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Community Conversation => Non-binary talk => Topic started by: Rock_chick on April 30, 2011, 05:31:46 AM

Title: Coming full circle
Post by: Rock_chick on April 30, 2011, 05:31:46 AM
Anyone remember a year ago when I first had a wander in the forest? I was just starting out and more than a little confused by everything (especially tying my shoelaces...those things are in league with the fruitcake) and I spent a lot of time in here figuring me out. But then as I transitioned I noticed that there was a slight decline down towards the female end of the spectrum and some bugger had coated the floor in teflon and I went careering off in a direction I hadn't really expected. But now things have leveled out somewhat and while I identify 100% female I have come to realise that I am in fact a very femme tomboy (talk about condridictions) and perhaps the forest is more of a second home than I thought.

I feel a kinship with you guys, even though I may not strictly speaking be androgynous, rather I just embrace all aspects of my personality as being female regardless of what society thinks. Hey, I'm a girl so if i'm doing something it's automatically feminine because I'm doing it. ;D

Possibly not the greatest revalation the world has seen, but I felt the need to share.

Title: Re: Coming full circle
Post by: Eva Marie on April 30, 2011, 08:22:13 PM
We have a really big forest and all are welcome to camp out here for as long as they like. We like having you around and you fit in well with our slightly warped world  :D
Title: Re: Coming full circle
Post by: Jaimey on May 01, 2011, 07:47:25 PM
Quote from: riven1 on April 30, 2011, 08:22:13 PM
We have a really big forest and all are welcome to camp out here for as long as they like. We like having you around and you fit in well with our slightly warped world  :D

This.  :)  I'm glad that you like us.  ...I suddenly feel like Sally Field.
Title: Re: Coming full circle
Post by: ativan on May 01, 2011, 10:00:56 PM
I think that once you've been camped here, you can never really leave
Title: Re: Coming full circle
Post by: MarinaM on May 04, 2011, 10:46:39 PM
Quote from: ativan on May 01, 2011, 10:00:56 PM
I think that once you've been camped here, you can never really leave

Ain't that the freak'n truth

Hey friend: weren't you looking for this in another corner of the forest?
(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2F3.bp.blogspot.com%2F_hJv1WNm9azw%2FSBGTso9xLFI%2FAAAAAAAAADE%2FOHy0FS6hKJw%2Fs400%2Ffruitcake.jpg&hash=8fd98ed685793b71e7df6552c321b7201695836e)

Title: Re: Coming full circle
Post by: Pica Pica on May 05, 2011, 02:59:36 PM
Cool, and always a pleasure to have you here. You have often seemed the right kind of sane.

Oh, and

Quote from: Helena on April 30, 2011, 05:31:46 AM

Hey, I'm a girl so if i'm doing something it's automatically feminine because I'm doing it. ;D


Stick andro in the right place and that be me.
Title: Re: Coming full circle
Post by: Rock_chick on May 08, 2011, 04:19:04 PM
I like being the right kind of sane  ;D
Title: Re: Coming full circle
Post by: regan on May 08, 2011, 04:37:49 PM
On a shorter timeline, but I think I've had much the same revelation of sorts in my own life.  First I said I couldn't lay claim to being a "tomboy" since I'd been raised a boy and that explained it.  Granted, by virtue of my job, I'm in a fairly hypermasculine period right now, but I like doing "boy stuff" AND I'm confident enough in myself to know that I'm a boy in looks only...  :)

Don't know if that makes sense, but I can't think how else to explain it...