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Community Conversation => Transsexual talk => Female to male transsexual talk (FTM) => Topic started by: sascraps on June 03, 2011, 07:32:10 PM

Title: Surprisingly feeling pretty good
Post by: sascraps on June 03, 2011, 07:32:10 PM
I just saw some new recent comments from the Infantile Five (the people who live in my town and constantly talk crap about me on youtube) and entice strangers into also commenting on how I'm a he-she, have a penis, have testicles, and a hermaphrodite and "no way can't be a girl", and for the first time ever, this BS didn't bother me. I actually feel pretty good. I know that these people are still stuck in high school, which was all of 17 years ago in the case of two of them. And the girls are just young, immature, "party girls" proud of themselves for being able to hook up with guys left & right. And they're all a bunch of druggies to boot. They're nothing to be upset about. I may be fat, but I'm clean & sober. I may identify as male, but SO WHAT?  Can we grow up already?  :laugh: LOL
Title: Re: Surprisingly feeling pretty good
Post by: Devyn on June 03, 2011, 07:44:45 PM
Well, I'm glad it doesn't bother you anymore. (:
Title: Re: Surprisingly feeling pretty good
Post by: Jude on June 03, 2011, 08:12:31 PM
isn't them telling people you're a guy a good thing? no skin off your nose eh! you're clearly the more mature one
Title: Re: Surprisingly feeling pretty good
Post by: sascraps on June 03, 2011, 08:31:43 PM
Well yeah, I see myself as a guy, but generally, slurs are hurtful words to use because they're so derogatory and intended to make people feel less than human, and it used to really get me down.
Title: Re: Surprisingly feeling pretty good
Post by: Megan Joanne on June 03, 2011, 08:38:02 PM
Good for you. People like them are losers to begin with, they aren't happy so they try to drag others down with them, particularly those that are different from the norm since they see them as easy victims, and they'll say things or do things just to make you feel bad about yourself. Try to continue to not let it bother you so much, just focus ahead on your goals, those near and easy to reach as well as those a long ways off still, you'll get somewhere, they most likely will still be where they are.