I'm in Massachusetts, there are a lot of support groups around here.  I'm looking to get into one myself, but I'm just trying to work up the courage I suppose.  I guess finding a therapist and getting on hrt would be a good step as well, but I almost don't know what to do first.  I suppose the support group.  But yeah, I'd say look in MA.  I live in Boston and there's Fenway Health which is supposed to be great.  I got denied because there is a wait list, but there is the Sydney Borum branch - also in Boston - and they can't refuse you if you are from 18-29 years old.  I'll probably be going there next week to see if I can see a therapist.  If you'd like, I can ask about support groups there, which I'll be doing anyway.