Hi everyone, I'm new to the forum. I was going to post in introductions, but I realized I'm feeling really down right now and it would be kind of a drag, and then I saw this sub-forum and it seemed like the place to get some things off my chest.
I'm FtM, 27. I've known what my gender is since late high school - Junior year. I haven't pursued any medical transition yet.
I'm a very cautious and practical person by nature. I also had a very difficult relationship with my parents while living in their house, and had to prioritize moving out for my own health. My younger sister and I purchased a condo together and I am currently working at a nice job in a very conservative industry to pay for my half of the costs.
I don't regret any of this, and I have a plan in place for when I will be able to transition. It involves becoming self-employed, though, and by my estimates, I won't be able to quit my day job for another three to five years.
I'm out to all my friends and I have a partner I love very much who is also FtM and permanently non-transition (due to health reasons). Most of the time, this is enough for right now. But lately I have been feeling like garbage. I hear about younger people starting HRT or coming out to their whole school (I would have never had that kind of courage!) and instead of being happy for them, I just start thinking about what a complacent coward I am compared to them, and how I really deserve to feel this dysphoria since I'm choosing not to do anything about it.
Well, I did say it would be a downer. Sorry! I am hoping that participating and contributing to a larger trans community will help; I used to hang out on a forum like this when I was younger and it seems like there are a lot of good folks here.
P.S. Maybe I should have given my name? Hi, I'm Tod.