Well never got to workshop, mums care workers never came. Woman came to see how mum was doing and said you will get 2 days free help, we were told 3 weeks. My sister on the case, she used to work in social housing sorting folks like this out!!
Ended up cooking mum breakfast, sorting stuff out and then cooking lunch with enough to be warmed up tomorrow. Sister is staying till after tea time to sort mum out, I just made mum a rhubarb and apple crumble as well as one for myself that should be enough for 3 puddings. I just crashed out on sofa for 20mins, well I was pooped. Also picked a good dish full of tomatoes from the green house this morning, brought a bagful home.