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Dawn Kellie

I had to travel across the country this week. I had to present male for the trip. I had the opportunity to see my parents. I still wore panties with my painted toes.

What do you do to present but still want to feel something
KELLIE K.

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Dear Kellie:
You asked a very good question that many member here ask as they are in the
middle of their transition journey.

Before I came out Full Time, I under-dressed as much as I was able with
painted toe nails, longer finger nails, perhaps a clear coat or very subtle colors.

As with you, undergarments, unisex clothing options.  There finally came a decision
point with my HRT progress that  it was becoming nearly impossible to hide my very
developed breasts and that was obviously where I made my decision to go Full Time.

I am wishing you well as you continue in your journey.

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Quote from: Dawn Kellie on March 11, 2026, 04:56:01 PMI had to travel across the country this week. I had to present male for the trip. I had the opportunity to see my parents. I still wore panties with my painted toes.

What do you do to present but still want to feel something
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Dawn Kellie

For close to the last 6 months my toes remain painted some color. My fingers have at minimum a matte clear coat and I ware panties daily.
I am definitely a crossdresser. I have as many "womans: clothes as men's. I have no shame or doubt that it's not a fetish. I feel more comfortable dressed enfemme
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I got my belly button pierced a few months ago (not as painful as I thought it would be lol), but it's concealed no one knows except my wife and her daughter my step daughter, and some of her (my stepdaughters friends who she had told, quite the gossip lol)

Anyways it was the first experience I ever had that actually made me feel good about doing something for me that made me feel empowered to be me, to pursue the woman I know I am.

I have yet to get my ears pierced or nose (not sure if the nose would have to get re done if I ever get ffs). I haven't had to be in public topless yet, and have no plans to be. Just my little secret. Lol

There is also jewelry itself like bracelets, or ankle bracelets, necklaces etc depending on which can be hidden or visible.

I have been using an eye lash serum which has made my lashes grow longer than my wife's (when she doesn't get fake ones lol)

And due to hrt I've been having to wear sports bras now at the gym or else it would be obvious that I'm no longer flat chested.

Besides under garments there is also hair style if you're growing it out or not. Mannerisms that can be either more feminine or masculine.

I'm currently in the awkward stage in between. Still presenting as masculine in public, but hrt is definitely working in the back ground, and I'm affirming myself in other ways that can't be seen from the outside world.

I hope that helps, I had more ideas but can't remember them at the moment.
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Paulie

I got my right nipple pierced about 30 year ago, long before I was cross dressing (damn it hurt).  A number of coworkers (mostly female) had done it and it was talked about a bit since it was not quite a mainstream thing back then.  So a younger coworker and I thought it would be cool to do.  I don't think he was even 21 at the time and I was in my 30's.

About 10 years later I got my navel and left nipple pierced.  I also had another piercing that I did myself around the same time.  Non of these had anything to do with trying to be feminine.  It was about 5 years later that I started wearing panties occasionally and then full time shortly after that.  It was such a good feel going into the men's room at work and looking down to see my panties with that little bow in front. ❤️

About the same time I had brought a few dresses at an outlet and was occasionally wearing them at home. 

For a number of years panties was enough, until I found some bra's that fit and could be worn under my shirts, with out being detected.  Suddenly I found myself wearing bra's full time, except when sleeping. 

Bra's and Panties got me by for a number of years.  Up until then I thought it was still just a cross dressing thing.  Eventually I moved to padded bras and shirts that were a little more feminine.  Then I progressed to women's jeans, more feminine tops at times, and padding in my bras.  Soon enough, that became most of the time.

One day about 3, 3 and a half years ago I was finishing up my annual checkup with my GP and I told her I needed breast.  Not wanted, needed. 

There still are a few times where I present 100% male, maybe 90% male but 99% of people don't notice that 10%.  The rest of the time I present male with breasts, in women's clothing.  I'm never going to pass but that's okay, I'm just fine with being me at this point.  I'm not done though, still have a couple of things that are giving me a little heart ache. 




Jillian-TG

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The easiest thing is to wear women's clothing items that are more gender neutral in appearance. Things like jeans, T shirts, sweatshirts, shorts that aren't super short, athletic shoes and even a subtle colour blouse all bought in the ladies department can be worn in male mode without getting much attention.

And if you look around in public - probably 90% of cis gender women dress that way. There is not a lot of heels and skirts out there.

That's how I dress when I go on vacation and add some light makeup.