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Started by Stottie Girl, April 20, 2026, 11:35:26 AM

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Stottie Girl

So I'm guessing the sanitary towel thing is a myth then? Thought it didn't make sense.
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Dawn Kellie

Ive heard of keeping feminine hygiene products to share.
I'd also assume if you said you were out it wouldn't look bad on you.
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Quote from: ChrissyRyan on April 20, 2026, 04:28:58 PMWell let us say they have a serial number.
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It wouldn't be illegal. There are companies that make purses just for that decision.
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Quote from: Dawn Kellie on April 20, 2026, 04:51:26 PMIt wouldn't be illegal. There are companies that make purses just for that decision.
It would be here, even tasers are classed as firearms. Pepper spray is banned too. You have to make do with a rape alarm and harsh language!
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Lori Dee

Keys are a very effective weapon.

I carry tampons in my first-aid kits in the Jeep and in my Survival Bag. They are the perfect size to plug a bullet hole if you ever need to.

For those across the pond, I have seen them used to plug a leak in a boat. They don't last long, but long enough to get to shore.

You can also stick one up each nostril with the strings hanging out.
Doesn't serve any purpose, but it is hilarious.
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Quote from: Stottie Girl on April 20, 2026, 05:00:12 PMIt would be here, even tasers are classed as firearms. Pepper spray is banned too. You have to make do with a rape alarm and harsh language!

A tail comb is a good makeshift shank. So is the Ficcare Maximas hairclip I use for French Twists. Its made of silver plated brass. An aerosol of Deep Heat is as good as pepper spray.
Carried the Deep Heat and tailcomb when I  was a bus driver and worked the hotel bar next door but one to Blackpools roughest pub.
It's legal to carry these objects.
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Stottie Girl

Quote from: big kim on April 21, 2026, 04:48:41 AMA tail comb is a good makeshift shank. So is the Ficcare Maximas hairclip I use for French Twists. Its made of silver plated brass. An aerosol of Deep Heat is as good as pepper spray.
Carried the Deep Heat and tailcomb when I  was a bus driver and worked the hotel bar next door but one to Blackpools roughest pub.
It's legal to carry these objects.
Remind me not to cross you Kim lol!

A girl I work with has a silver dagger that she uses as a hair pin. She says it's ornamental but I have my doubts!

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Quote from: Lori Dee on April 20, 2026, 05:18:47 PMYou can also stick one up each nostril with the strings hanging out.
Doesn't serve any purpose, but it is hilarious.


Well it's worth carrying just for that reason alone!

Don't think there is much call for plugging bullet wounds in the UK thank god!
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Athena

I have a smaller cross body bag so I can't have much in it. Keys, card wallet, phone, pen, magnifying glass, change for shopping carts and a knife with a glass break and seat belt cutter. The knife is a bit of a risk as in Ontario you can't carry defensive items but the glass break and the seat belt cutter are safety devices so I am in a grey area. Besides the glass breaker can be used for defense without escalating to lethal force. 
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ChrissyRyan

I usually carry

Wallet but at very least needed IDs, a credit card, $10
Tissues
Lipstick
A few Tylenol, Advil, Tums, breath mints, and one day of meds.
Bandaid
Personal protection item
Pen and pencil
Mini writing pad or sticky notes pad
Keys, fob
Telephone
Comb, small brush
Hand sanitizer
Extra charging cord and adapter if really need be and not left in vehicle.


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Liz K

It depends.  I like to travel light and don't carry a purse most days.  When I do carry a purse, it'll be one of four that I have, depending on the situation.

For days when minimalist will do, I wear a festival belt.  It's basically a stylish leather fanny pack with enough room for phone, small wallet, keys, lipstick, and a few tissues.  It's great for any place where I want my hands free or there's a high risk of loss or theft.

Next up is a small leather crossbody bag I got from Next UK.  It's big enough for phone, larger wallet, keys, small makeup kit, a couple of panty liners, tissues, and assorted bits.

A few months ago, I bought a larger theft-resistant crossbody bag expressly for travel.  It sports slash-resistant fabric, cut-resistant straps, lockable zippers, and RFID protection.  The bag is large enough for phone, keys, larger wallet, larger makeup kit, panty liners, tissues, mints, hand sanitizer, wipes, water bottle, and my small mirrorless camera with 1-2 lenses.

My largest bag is also my nicest.  It's an Italian leather crossbody tote.  I mostly use it when I'm wearing heels because it's big enough to carry a spare pair of flats.  There's plenty of room for my phone, keys, large wallet, large makeup kit, panty liners, tissues, band-aids/moleskin, mints, hand sanitizer, wipes, water bottle, folding umbrella, and my small mirrorless camera with 1-2 lenses.  The bag is so big that weight can be an issue when it's full.

coral

Lori Dee,
  Think I bought a very similar bag, but in black from Amazon few days ago.  One I bought only has 8 zippers (at least that I have found).  They get heavy real fast.

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Quote from: coral on April 24, 2026, 01:02:01 PMLori Dee,
  Think I bought a very similar bag, but in black from Amazon few days ago.  One I bought only has 8 zippers (at least that I have found).  They get heavy real fast.

    Coral

So true! I had to stop carrying pocket change and other things because it was getting heavy.
Mine has three zippers on the "front", two on the top, and one on the "back. There is also one inside. Plus unzippered pockets inside and one on each end.

Maybe if I had fewer pockets, I would be less inclined to put stuff in them and would reduce the weight.

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Stottie Girl

Quote from: Liz K on April 21, 2026, 08:59:32 PMIt depends.  I like to travel light and don't carry a purse most days.  When I do carry a purse, it'll be one of four that I have, depending on the situation.

For days when minimalist will do, I wear a festival belt.  It's basically a stylish leather fanny pack with enough room for phone, small wallet, keys, lipstick, and a few tissues.  It's great for any place where I want my hands free or there's a high risk of loss or theft.

Next up is a small leather crossbody bag I got from Next UK.  It's big enough for phone, larger wallet, keys, small makeup kit, a couple of panty liners, tissues, and assorted bits.

A few months ago, I bought a larger theft-resistant crossbody bag expressly for travel.  It sports slash-resistant fabric, cut-resistant straps, lockable zippers, and RFID protection.  The bag is large enough for phone, keys, larger wallet, larger makeup kit, panty liners, tissues, mints, hand sanitizer, wipes, water bottle, and my small mirrorless camera with 1-2 lenses.

My largest bag is also my nicest.  It's an Italian leather crossbody tote.  I mostly use it when I'm wearing heels because it's big enough to carry a spare pair of flats.  There's plenty of room for my phone, keys, large wallet, large makeup kit, panty liners, tissues, band-aids/moleskin, mints, hand sanitizer, wipes, water bottle, folding umbrella, and my small mirrorless camera with 1-2 lenses.  The bag is so big that weight can be an issue when it's full.
Do you just carry your camera in a normal bag? No foam protection or anything?
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Liz K

I generally carry my camera and lenses without protective padding.  There's enough padding in my larger bags that I'm not too concerned about it.
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