Thank God, I live in California. Granted, my area is as red as the middle of Arkansas, but it's still in the state of California.
Recently, we had a primary for governor. Some ridiculous number of Democrats were running. I believe it was over 60. I read about all the front runners and every single one was absolutely in 100% pro LGBTQ+, including trans. Many had a legacy of actions to support this not just words.
I grew up in Michigan in Ohio and those Democrats are a different breed. It's a lot different on the West Coast. Here we get to see hope for the Democratic Party.