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ChrissyRyan

Is it true that the TSA will take away your self defense pepper spray?

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Athena

Quote from: ChrissyRyan on June 01, 2024, 07:12:27 PMIs it true that the TSA will take away your self defense pepper spray?

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I would be surprised and concerned if they didn't
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Gaydave

For me if I go somewhere unknown I try to stay in populated areas simply because no one will start anything if there it pretty much populated or lot of people ( witnesses)  or know who I am meeting and try to stay quiet like a ghost lol.
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Lori Dee

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A new wave of romance scams is washing across the internet – here's how to stay safe
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Romance scams are among the most emotionally damaging forms of cyber crime because they combine carefully manufactured intimacy with financial theft – the scammers go after your heart, and then your wallet.

Just last week, Australian police warned more than 5,000 people they may have been targeted in a large-scale romance scam linked to overseas syndicates. The scammers used common dating apps to find victims and start online relationships, then tricked their victims into buying a fake cryptocurrency.

Importantly, the romance scammers' toolkit has changed in recent years. Artificial intelligence (AI) has lowered the cost of impersonation. Convincing profile photos can be generated in minutes, affectionate conversations can be auto-generated, and "proof" of identity can now be faked through voice and video.

In the lead-up to Valentine's Day, dating apps get busier. So how can we stay safe from romance scammers?


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Dawn Kellie

The world is a dangerous place.  Those that act and look like targets will become targets
When out by yourself or with others don't bury your face in your phone. Keep your head up, look around, monitor what's happening.
I took a ccw class and the instructor put it the best.
You been no less than 3 levels of observation.
1) you're home doors are locked and you're favorite pj's. That's a green light situation relax and enjoy your time.
2) you're out with friends in a part of town you're comfortable with. That a yellow light. You observe but you can have fun and just know what's going on around you.
3) You're by yourself or with otherswho can'tkeep their had up. It could be any area you know or don't know. This us a red light. You're head is always moving you keep your eyes and ears open. You know what's going on.  You watch reflections and shadows.  You are aware.

I didn't do the explanation justice, but I hope everyone gets what I'm saying.
Please be safe when one of us gets hurt we all get hurt. Look out for others sometimes just identifying a concern can stop it.
KELLIE K.

Dawn Kellie

Oh, I forgot. You need to go from any of the 3 settings to another quickly. That strange noise in the backyard you go to yellow, and ready for red.
Don't become paranoid that doesn't help just be observant
KELLIE K.

Rochelle

I always live in condition yellow when away from the home.  I am a ccw carrier.  15 years of military law enforcement in the far past has kinda melded my mindset.  I never want to be a victim or see others in danger.  I already know how I will react if needed.  It's unfortunate to think this way but the world can be unkind sometimes.  My workplace leadership is aware and appreciative of the extra layer we have at the office.  The odd thing is I think law enforcement has changed alot in the past three decades and I am a bit standoffish and don't enage them unnecessarily.

ChrissyRyan

Security cameras are good to have around and working.
Lights, alarms, watchdogs, and good neighbors too.

A T Rex may be good to fend off intruders but they eat a lot and they require a lot more space than dogs.

Be aware of your surroundings in public.  Be safe.


Always stay cheerful, be polite, kind, and understanding. Accepting yourself as the woman you are is very liberating.  Never underestimate the appreciation and respect of authenticity.  Help connect a person to someone that may be able to help that person.  Be brave, be strong.  A TRUE friend is a treasure.  Relationships are very important, people are important, and the sooner we all realize that the better off the world will be.  Try a little kindness.  Be generous with your time, energy, wisdom, and resources.   Inconvenience yourself to help someone.   I am a brown eyed, brown haired woman. 

Simplycause

I lived in New York for 10 years. I was pretty much a free range chicken. I'm not sure there's a piece of pavement on Long Island through NYC I didn't walk. Never felt unsafe. I knew where to avoid, I knew  how to not be a target. I worked a drive through convenience store 16-19. A lot of times by myself.

I'm not sure if actively transitioning changes things going forward but I've walked around Atlanta, New Orleans, Memphis off the beaten paths and while I'm aware, I've never felt unsafe.

My job is in between two halfway houses and a "community resource center" that's across the street. There's always sketchy people walking by.

Paulie

Odds are that if you're ever attacked it will be incidental to a robbery.  Unless of course you like to drink and hangout in rowdy bars, but this would be totally on you 😝.  Despite what the press would have you believe, hate crimes are very very rare, but they make for good ratings so they get lots of air time.

That said it's very wise to be cautious. 

When you come out of a store, get your nose out of your phone and look around.  Is there anyone hanging around that's not coming from or going to their car?

When you're stopped in traffic, leave enough room to drive around the car in front of you. You could have inadvertently pissed someone off and having a way out could avoid trouble.

When you're at a restaurant, sit against a wall where you can see the door, that way nothing is going to happen behind you.  Know where the exits are, remember there is always an exit out through the kitchen.  Have an exit plan.  If it looks like trouble, get out.  You can alway go back and pay your bill later.

No matter where you are have an exit plan. 

You don't need to be paranoid but you need to be alert.  You need to look alert too, the element that means to do harm is looking for an easy target.  Don't be that target.  If they see you notice them, they will look for someone else.

I've had my CCW for just shy of 30 years and I always carry.  Never even came close to needing to pull my EDC, most likely I never will and I pray that I never will.  But I'll always carry.

Paulie.