I have been in the closet for years, 29 to be exact.  I have always feared my family and friends reaction to me saying that I love the feel of women's panties, and thigh high stalkings.  That changed recently.  I got married less than two years ago and have worked my way up to actually coming out to my wife.  I first chose boxer briefs (not much of a transition).  Next it was onto Manties (man panties).  My wife loved it when I wore those.  Then everything changed last week.  My sister said she thought I should dress up as George Washington and wear makeup and a wig.  I looked at her and said, "Why don't I just dress up like Marilyn Monroe."  My mother-in-law said, "I'd love to see that!"  (Being the closet cross-dresser) That night, I talked to my wife and said I would love to dress like that.  She loved the idea.  Then the following weekend, I let her have it with both barrels.  I told her about my liking to dress up for more than Halloween and at first she was a little shocked, but has since said she'd support me, as long as I give her a child and don't want to be a woman permanently.  I agreed and now, I have clothing and a wig on the way.
I also need help.  My wife was a tomboy and has never worn makeup and lingerie the way I like to see women wearing it.  In fact, I think that I would probably look better and know how to do it better than her.  The point is that I need help figuring things out like safe places to buy clothes, makeup and other things.  I appreciate any help that I can get.  
I am looking for a place to talk about how to do things correctly and to enjoy myself in an understanding community.  
I originally posted this in another forum...sorry.  I just got here today.