No one saying anything is not passing

[Nero]

Something that I think we sometimes forget is that simply when we go out 'dressed' (or whatever you want to call it), just because no one says anything does not mean we 'passed'.

So true.
I'm also not naive enough to think that being "mistaken" for my true gender on occasion means I pass.
A few "sirs/ma'ams" here and there do not equate passability.
If you suspect someone has made you, they have.

[Ricki]

Kimberly your wisdom almost exceeds my culinary abilities!
you get a 9 out of 10...
hugs
Ricki