Thanks Sandy, you're the best!  I really appreciate your response.  
I'm still a quite a ways away from my GRS  

 , I'm shooting for June 6, 2012 as a 60th birthday present for myself.  I just got home from my therapist and she is going to start putting together her letter so I can submit my intake form.
Jamie
Be kinder than necessary because everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle.