It's funny I have a hard time deciding what category to put my posts in because I don't know what exactly I am yet.  Anyway I have an appointment with the urologist tomorrow  and thankfully my mom is going with me this time.  I told my parents what was going on and they are totally supportive.  They knew I was different but they just always accepted it.  They're really layed back.  Anyway the urologist office told me that they where probably going do an MRI and a physical exam. Be glad when all this is over.