This sounds backwards but, I'm glad to hear you still have some lower jaw swelling and numbness.  Not that I want you to have it.  I'm about 3 1/2 months post-op and I too still have lower jaw swelling and numbness.  I thought maybe it was just me and that my progress was extra slow, but your post relieved some stress.  I still can't open my mouth as wide as I would like, a big smile still looks kind of goofy, left ear is numb, and I can't move my forehead but, overall, I feel good and I'm pleased with the results.   I don't know if people are being kind or what, but I get gendered correctly almost 100% of the time.  I do wear a head scarf (to hide the scalp advancement scar and my male pattern baldness) but, otherwise I just go out wearing my old boy clothes and no makeup.  Still don't have a lot of confidence. 
Anyway, it was good to hear from you.