Middle aged and sick of hiding...but petrified of what's to come

[CynthiaR]

@Lori Dee Yes, this is exactly what I've been reminding her of. She sees the transition timeline photos and all that registers immediately is the difference between the two ends. It doesn't register that it's a slow metamorphosis between them. It's like growing old. It takes years to happen, and either you just happen to notice one day, or "that friend"(LOL) happens to point it out. I've read in several places that I need to take photos at regular intervals. It's the only way I'll see any changes, in case I'm getting frustrated. I think her reading your post will help reassure her that it won't be a shocking change, but a slow, gentle shift. Thank you.

[Gina P]

Cynthia,
   I was not sure if you have sought out any trans groups in your area. These can be a great help meeting in person or virtual. I have, or was a member of Renaissance, in Bethlehem/ Allentown pa area. I made so many great friends there and such a welcoming group of people. I'm not sure if there are any in your area but I'm sure you could message renaissance to help you find one.
  I look forward to following your progress. Hope you have a nice Thanksgiving.
      Hugs Gina

[CynthiaR]

@Gina P

Hi Gina, I've hit the internet search engines looking for local groups. So far, I haven't found any locally that are active. It seems as though the Covid scare killed them off. Greatly appreciate the tip to look into Renaissance. I'll be doing just that while I'm waiting for a bird to cook. Wishing you and everyone else a Happy Thanksgiving!