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Can someone point me to "Late-Onset Transsexual talk" I can't find it?
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I have no partner or children either. I suppose it should make it easier but it certainly doesn't feel easier! I am probably worrying about nothing as I hardly ever see anyone from the team in person and I won't be the only trans person in the council but the other girl is so stealth I didn't know she was trans! I would love to have the same outcome.

If you aren't intending to stay you could just come out there as a test run maybe? Or are you woried it might affect your references?
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Welcome back, Tammy! 

tammy753

I honestly don't know how it works with references. If you leave and want to start work as your true self how does that work?

Stottie Girl

Quote from: tammy753 on May 20, 2026, 05:51:19 PMI honestly don't know how it works with references. If you leave and want to start work as your true self how does that work?
I genuinely don't know but it's a bloody good question. Maybe someone can chime in with the answer?
A wise man once said don't judge a man until you've walked a mile in his shoes, that way when you judge him you're a mile away and you have his shoes!

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tgirlamg

Quote from: tammy753 on May 20, 2026, 05:14:51 PMCan someone point me to "Late-Onset Transsexual talk" I can't find it?

Hey Tammy!

I don't think we have a dedicated area for late onset but if you post a new thread with late onset in the title under the transgender talk or transexual MTF section... you should get lots of responses!

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Quote from: tammy753 on May 20, 2026, 05:14:51 PMCan someone point me to "Late-Onset Transsexual talk" I can't find it?


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Quote from: tammy753 on May 20, 2026, 05:51:19 PMI honestly don't know how it works with references. If you leave and want to start work as your true self how does that work?


I have always used my name on the legal documents for applications, references, etc.
If it changes, then you use your then current legal name.  The deadname would likely linger though.  Others here can go further with their experiences to help you.

Changing your name on legal documents can be handled via many transgender support group associated lawyers for maybe a $500 fee or you can do it yourself.

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Hey, nice one Tammy, a fellow Silver Subscriber! It's so great of you to commit to financially supporting this fabulous resource.
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Just knowing there are others out there has been huge for me. Some of you are dealing with some of me same issues and some of you are life goal role models. I want to see this place exist for others like me\us as long as possible.

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Quote from: tammy753 on May 24, 2026, 09:07:10 AMJust knowing there are others out there has been huge for me. Some of you are dealing with some of me same issues and some of you are life goal role models. I want to see this place exist for others like me\us as long as possible.
Yeah, I'm with you there, some of the people on here are amazing role models. I hope to follow in their footsteps one day. It's inspiring stuff.
A wise man once said don't judge a man until you've walked a mile in his shoes, that way when you judge him you're a mile away and you have his shoes!

Never trust a man who, when left alone in a room with a tea cozy, doesn't try it on - Billy Connolley