Hi New\Returning Member

[tammy753]

Can someone point me to "Late-Onset Transsexual talk" I can't find it?

[Stottie Girl]

I have no partner or children either. I suppose it should make it easier but it certainly doesn't feel easier! I am probably worrying about nothing as I hardly ever see anyone from the team in person and I won't be the only trans person in the council but the other girl is so stealth I didn't know she was trans! I would love to have the same outcome.

If you aren't intending to stay you could just come out there as a test run maybe? Or are you woried it might affect your references?

[KristaFairchild]

Welcome back, Tammy! 

[tammy753]

I honestly don't know how it works with references. If you leave and want to start work as your true self how does that work?

[Stottie Girl]

I honestly don't know how it works with references. If you leave and want to start work as your true self how does that work?

I genuinely don't know but it's a bloody good question. Maybe someone can chime in with the answer?

[tgirlamg]

Can someone point me to "Late-Onset Transsexual talk" I can't find it?

Hey Tammy!

I don't think we have a dedicated area for late onset but if you post a new thread with late onset in the title under the transgender talk or transexual MTF section... you should get lots of responses!

Hugs!

Ashley 💕

[ChrissyRyan]

Can someone point me to "Late-Onset Transsexual talk" I can't find it?

https://www.susans.org/index.php?topic=57203.0

[Lori Dee ✅]

https://www.susans.org/index.php?topic=57203.0

Thanks, Chrissy!

[ChrissyRyan]

I honestly don't know how it works with references. If you leave and want to start work as your true self how does that work?

I have always used my name on the legal documents for applications, references, etc.
If it changes, then you use your then current legal name.  The deadname would likely linger though.  Others here can go further with their experiences to help you.

Changing your name on legal documents can be handled via many transgender support group associated lawyers for maybe a $500 fee or you can do it yourself.

[Alana Ashleigh]

Hi Tammy

Welcome back

Alana

[tammy753]

So I had therapy today and she was happy I signed up here. To everyone here your support means the world to me!

[Dawn Kellie]

Glad you are finding something that helps you. I look forward to seeing you grow

[Northern Star Girl ✅]

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So I had therapy today and she was happy I signed up here. To everyone here your support means the world to me!

[Lori Dee ✅]

Congrats on the new profile badge, Tammy! It looks good on you.

Thank you for your support. It means a lot.

We understand that not everyone can afford to subscribe or donate, and that is okay. Every little bit helps, and a silver subscription is a great help.

Thank you!

[Stottie Girl]

Hey, nice one Tammy, a fellow Silver Subscriber! It's so great of you to commit to financially supporting this fabulous resource.

[tammy753]

Just knowing there are others out there has been huge for me. Some of you are dealing with some of me same issues and some of you are life goal role models. I want to see this place exist for others like me\us as long as possible.

[Stottie Girl]

Just knowing there are others out there has been huge for me. Some of you are dealing with some of me same issues and some of you are life goal role models. I want to see this place exist for others like me\us as long as possible.

Yeah, I'm with you there, some of the people on here are amazing role models. I hope to follow in their footsteps one day. It's inspiring stuff.