I have enjoyed reading Gwen Smith's editorials for a long time - much longer than my journey. I decided to write to Gwen and share my 2 cents worth of thoughts. I have pasted below a copy of the email I sent her.
Chaunte
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Dear Gwen,
I enjoy your editorials. I hear a very soft-spoken yet strong-willed person every time I read your article.
I am a practicing Roman Catholic. If I keep practicing, someday I may get it right. :-D I am also starting my journey of transition from male to female.
Some of my friends online have pointed out that the interpretation of Deuteronomy 22:5 by many Christian groups, including the Catholic Church, is incorrect and too narrow. A few interpretations include don't pretend to be a woman to avoid your civic duty. Another thought is that Deuteronomy was forbidding cross-dressing because it was part of a pagan fertility rite.
Who best to answer a question about the Old Testament / Torah than a rabbi? Rabbi Tilsen interprets Deuteronomy as trying to prevent illicit affairs and he makes a very convincing case for this interpretation. I have pasted the link below.
http://www.beki.org/crossdress.htmlUnfortunately, the Catholic Church tends to have a very narrow view of sex and gender, not unlike we Americans. Sex is for procreation. Gender roles are set to preserve the family. Since same-sex sex cannot procreate, it is wrong. Changing ones physical sex to match their psychological gender means that person also can no longer procreate. Thus we become evil in the sight of the Lord!
Supposedly.
I think Dolly Parton said it best from her song "Travelin Thru" from the movie TransAmerica:
"God made me for a reason and nothing is in vain
Redemption comes in many shapes with many kinds of pain
Oh sweet Jesus if you're listening, keep me ever close to you
As I'm stumblin', tumblin', wonderin', as I'm travelin' thru"
Being transgendered / transexual is not a choice. This is how God made me. This is the journey God has set for me. I don't know why or how, but it
is who I am.
The question for me is this: Do I follow the path the Almighty has set before me, or do I listen to a group of old men in black skirts who are afraid? God's will or old-men's will?
For me, the choice is simple.
Peace,
Chaunte Marie O'Connor
"Like the poor wayfaring stranger that they speak about in song
I'm just a weary pilgrim trying to find my own way home
Oh sweet Jesus if you're out there, keep me ever close to you
As I'm travelin', travelin', travelin', as I'm travelin' thru"