Sex and intimacy...

[tekla]

God, what would men give just to skip straight to the sex without the making-out part?  Oh, $40, same as downtown.

Both sides trade one for the other, men trade intimacy for sex, women trade sex for intimacy - 'twas ever thus.

[eli77]

Both sides trade one for the other, men trade intimacy for sex, women trade sex for intimacy - 'twas ever thus.

Straight people are weird.

[Rebekah with a K-A-H]

Straight people are weird.

Amen.  Why trade when you can have both?

[tekla]

Straight people are weird.

Everybody's weird, they are just weird in different ways.

[MsDazzler]

Straight people are weird.

Everybody's weird, they are just weird in different ways.

aint that true! I am a weirdo lol

seriously , though - intimacy rocks! you cuddle and kiss with someone all night as opposed to just acheiving that few-second orgasm and leaving out the door. lol

[Mahsa Tezani]

God, what would men give just to skip straight to the sex without the making-out part?  Oh, $40, same as downtown.

Both sides trade one for the other, men trade intimacy for sex, women trade sex for intimacy - 'twas ever thus.

I charge 200$ an hour and I get to "inspect their wallet' at the end of the night.

[Jennifer]

intimacy rocks!

This is so true. I have always valued intimacy over sex even though I used to have a T powered sex drive.

Jennifer

[Mahsa Tezani]

This is so true. I have always valued intimacy over sex even though I used to have a T powered sex drive.

Jennifer

I still have a T powered sex drive.  Nothing wrong with that.

[justmeinoz]

http://mycdn.theexcitantgroup.netdna-cdn.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/lesbian-sex-flowchart1.jpg

Interesting.  Explains exactly where I am.  Not having sex, or anything else.

[Kim 526]

I have been alone a while and I REALLY miss intimacy. A knowing glance, the brush of a hand, a kiss as we pass through the doorway. I will cherish all the intimacy I have had in my life because the fear is that I may never have it again. Very, very sad and making me wonder what's left?

[AbraCadabra]

I have been alone a while and I REALLY miss intimacy. A knowing glance, the brush of a hand, a kiss as we pass through the doorway. I will cherish all the intimacy I have had in my life because the fear is that I may never have it again. Very, very sad and making me wonder what's left?

Wanna change places? :-) You'd be in the same one again! Grrrrrr.

Yes, didn't you say it all.
Now let me sob to make it a little better.

Charging $200 will make ->-bleeped-<- all difference to this here condition.
"Being paid for getting laid..."? NOT the answer to this need, sure ain't. Nahhhh

Axélle

[Kim 526]

"Charging $200 will make ->-bleeped-<- all difference to this here condition.
"Being paid for getting laid..."? NOT the answer to this need, sure ain't. Nahhhh"

I don't understand what you meant?

[Mahsa Tezani]

"Charging $200 will make ->-bleeped-<- all difference to this here condition.
"Being paid for getting laid..."? NOT the answer to this need, sure ain't. Nahhhh"

I don't understand what you meant?

If a guy wants sex and doesn't want a relationship...I should charge him.

[MsDazzler]

If a guy wants sex and doesn't want a relationship...I should charge him.

Go stand on the streets near Divas and pick up cruising guys 'n charge them 10% less than what the local TG prosittutes do, LOL.

I think intimacy is beginning to fade into oblivion for me...

[Mahsa Tezani]

Go stand on the streets near Divas and pick up cruising guys 'n charge them 10% less than what the local TG prosittutes do, LOL.

The non cracked addled price right?

I had wanted to work as an escort. Of course, I got the boyfriend and he wasn't gonna have it.

[AbraCadabra]

If a guy wants sex and doesn't want a relationship...I should charge him.

Hm, I guess you got a point --- so long he brings his non-HIV certificate, AND will be fine with a condom. "The things we do for love..." ta, ta, :-)

Axélle

[Steffi]

Although I've always liked intimacy rather than just bang-bang, I used to be a horny guy. 
At 53 I still needed at least one orgasm per day and had a T level of 28  (a cis woman is circa 1.4)
On AA implant, my level fell to 1.8    I still had SOME sex-drive, but was far more interested in intimacy.
Post-op my T level has been steadily falling .... 1.2   1.0    0.8     0.6     0.4 now
Now I have almost zero drive, though can get interested if my g/f starts things off.

I'd swap sex for intimacy, just kissing, stroking, cuddling up - especially cuddling up to fall asleep together at night.

[MsDazzler]

Go figure - a classic example happened just last night, heh.

I met a guy off the Internet for drinks, ended up back at my place... the funny thing was that I was actually horny and ready to go at it, then all of suddenly my sex drive deflated for some reason (I suspect too much alcohol was starting to hit me and it was like 3 am)...

I wanted to just settle for intimacy, but unfortunatey, being a hot-blooded (and hot!) alpha male he is, he was all riled up and wanted to ->-bleeped-<- - so we had sex until he had his orgasm first then he finally rolled off and i was able to curl up to him and finally get some bleary-eyed intimacy at 6am.

Go figure. lol