It seems a health issue to me – yet I'm also sure not every one will agree...
It seems too like some sort of addiction on both sides, the dog lover's AND the dogs' - again I'm sure not every one will agree either...
I'm trying to figure out why this is such a wide spread "thing" with mostly females... cis- only this far, in my experience.
I know of THREE... actually all I'm close to (one no more) and the other females I know do not have a dog, or dogs.
Now imagine an American Pit-Bull with her male buddy, a Rothweiler / Staffordshire-terrier mix, add the second husband, all night for years sharing the same bed... that lot of them snoring like hell knows no fury!
Just writing this down makes me feel pretty weird - in deed it does. VERY... weird. Second husband = my son's stepfather, so we talk about my ex.
Next, two Yorkshire terriers (handbag dogs...) in bed with/add my other friends new bf... (poor sod...)
The argument that poor dude was trying to win for HOURS, (me being present) was that he can not sleep with those "extras", getting up several times at night, them (the male and female Yorkshires) are snoring, with the male having his halitosis breathing into his face, the female preferring to be 'crushed' rather then to move out of the way, and the male licking one's face and being into 'French kissing' as his every morning exercise... (Love conquers all?)
BTW, when I had to look after those, plus puppies, I had the same experience, so this is how it is.
WHAT IS IT?! that causes close to consternation in those females (the human one's) if one suggests that the dogs aught better sleep in their doggy beds? They (the dogs) even keep each other company and do this quite comfortably if snoozing during the day.
I have watched that poor bf trying to make his case, TO PLEASE GET SOME SLEEP, AND TO MIND HIS ALLERGY (swollen face in the morning) never mind having onlookers during performance of his sexual act!... eye-ball to eye-ball...!!
OK, - please any suggestions why dog's needs trump an apparently ever sooo beloved bf's needs?
In the case of the husbands, the other two cases... it seems to be OK with them. No more 'nookie' performances (hum...) and apparently ALSO much in love with the dogs...
May one be ever so happy that no chickens or ducks or maybe goats get involved?
Gosh.... WHAT IS IT?! Back to nature? Separation anxiety?
What am I missing here?
Any one for some deeper -psychological insights- to make me feel better?
Grrrr,
Axélle