I agree with Jamie, they don't have to. I've read some of your other posts and it seems as if this is all something that is new to you. Hopefully after you and your bf come to terms with what all this means for you two things will smooth over. This is a journey that should be enjoyed and cherished. I'm a significant other to a t girl and she has yet to start hormones, but she's got her note and an appointment scheduled for January to start hrt. It might not be very similar, but if you ever need anyone to talk to, I'd be more than happy to lend an ear!