I'll ask here, seeing as it is fendementally the same sort of question (and no point making threads just for the sake of it).
I want my wife to join the forum. I notice you have a SO section.
At a previous site they had a SO section too.
Now here is the question. Am I allowed to post in there at all, ever, even in a thread of my own starting? Or is it a violation, a case of no you may not post there at all?
It became a matter of difficulty at the other location, because it was not stated properly or efficiently or I am not sure if it was stated at all to be honest.
Should I even be able to read in there in the first place? Is it meant to be a spot where spouses or family can ask of others and be free of input from myself? Should it be invite only if I am not meant to have any say in there?
I had hoped to make a break through in communicating with my wife, and actually I was, and then poof I get banned from the site by ogrerish moderators all full of their power. They out of hand deleted posts without warning which I desperately needed for the wife to see. To be honest, I'd love to break one moderators knee caps I was so incredibly angry with her.
I am here because I need a lot of support, and I want the wife to come here because anything the aids in communication is a plus. There's no longer any point in her being at the other place, as they ruined it for us. I would like her to come her so I might benefit from the opportunity. But I want her to at least think this time will actually work. Her experience with the internet is damned near nil, so I need an environment that won't treat her ill.
If I am unallowed to communicate with her account to account, well to be blunt, she will be alone on this site and likely will get next to no use out of it. She's not internet savvy like so many think is so easy. It isn't. She barely comprehends how to use a computer. To me, I have no trouble with them at all. I've been online since 1990. This is old news.
So I need this descriptor expanded on.
"A place for the families (Parents included) of the transgendered to talk about issues they face in their daily lives. Please respect that this is an area for SO only."
Am I to assume the only people allowed to post in here need to be a non TG person that is SO or family?
Because my concern is fueled by what looks like posts from non SO and family.
Am I allowed to post in there or not?
Or do I just tell the wife to join, make it known she's my wife, and tell her to just enjoy posting in my threads and or starting her own elsewhere in sections she feels ok with and just not fret over the matter?
