Hi all, I was out for lunch with my boyfriend this weekend at a place he goes to very frequently. Hence, he has gotten to know the waitresses quite well.
He has since told me that when we first met, there were a few waitresses who he could tell liked him, and he was considering asking one of them out (before him and I became official). So this weekend at lunch, guess who served us?! of all people.....
So anyways, they chatted it up and what not, but he said that she wasn't acting herself because he was with me. It was definitely uncomfortable and awkward for me either way, and I got a little upset. I didn't get mad at him or anything, just sad. Was I wrong in feeling this way?
This is my first relationship and so I don't really know what is 'right' and what is 'wrong.' We talked about it and he said he can't help it if these girls like him. Fair enough, I just don't like witnessing it.
I see this waitress as a threat, unfortunately. Am I overreacting? I know he can get a cisgirl like her anytime, so should I just let him go and do that? He supports me being trans, but I'm worried about cisgirls. He says he loves me and wants me, but I guess I'm not convinced. But isn't that all that matters?
Any honest advice??