"Yes, I'm on a slow journey to womanhood and I am enjoying it so much"
We all have a slow journey so to speak, but never let that bother you and don't judge your progress by the physical development, you are there only when you sense there is no longer any conflict, with yourself and others, and you have earned your position in life among otherswithout questions.
It is not the size of your bust or the curve of your waistline that makes you what you are, it is the recognition of others that allows you to truely be, though that may sound contrary to a lot of views. in the end, it is not conformity that we seek, but the acceptance by others as being what we believe we are. After all, human beings are social animals and we need socialization of the type we crave to be complete.
From what I have found, each of us on the full oneway trip is in search of one thing, acceptance, and simple tolerance isn't the same. We can't accept simple passing which is shallow and emotionally incomplete, we must actually integrate in the deepest most meaningful ways with never a doubt that we actually are what we represent ourselves to be. Only then will the deamons leave us alone.