Quote from: ♡ Emily ♡ on November 14, 2013, 01:53:44 PM
Quite an off-topic, but since this expression is priceless - consider it stolen
Now, on a more serious note... I dont how old are You, but if You are somewhere 40+, then I believe that nobody could have given You a chance because they did not know that such a chance existed - which is sadly the truth .
Hey Emily, on the subject of the stolen expression, feel free! You made me smile with those words. And, to be honest, go off on a bit of an internal rant. I mean omg, it's insane: 'Would you like a blue shirt to go with those brown pants?' Ugh. And for years this was my uniform...
On the serious note, many thanks for offering this bit of context. I am, in fact, 40+ and you are so right, nobody could give me a chance because they did not know such a chance existed. In this way, my elders were - hell my very culture was - ill equipped to offer me the help, support, guidance - the
options - I desperately needed.
In another thread somewhere, someone raised the notion that trans folk over a certain age can very much be considered survivors. Now, of course, all of us that make it are survivors - it's not easy for anyone! But this notion really resonated for me. Not too long ago, there was NO talk of transgender in the media, there were NO discussion groups like this one, there was NO research, NO theory, there were very, very few books on the subject...
Your comments remind me that somehow I am a survivor - I have gotten this far. This label, for whatever reason helps me own my trans-ness, my battle scars, my fears and regrets and resentments. And do so with my head held - well, if not high at least a wee bit up! It helps me embody this life and find my next step forward.
So deep appreciations.