If it's sticking up I'm guessing it's fairly short. People with shorter hair always seem to be more concerned about how their hair looks than people with long hair. When you have long hair it never really sticks up and you pretty much get used to it having something of a life of it's own. You might want to go with a longer style. If really don't like the way mine looks I can just put it in a ponytail and it looks OK.
~ Lyric ~