[WARNING: I talk a little bit about SRS and all the stuff that goes into it, it may be a little NSFW? It depends what you quantify as that. Any mods, please feel free to move this if you see fit. I wasn't sure where to put it.]
So i've been graced by the blessing of lovely, understanding parents who not only are willing to pay for my HRT, but also SRS. The catch is though that I have to decide and get the operation when i'm 18-19 or else the money will be forfeited and used for his retirement.
Deep down I know I do want SRS, I feel really uncomfortable with my genitalia. It sucks looking into the mirror and seeing my female body and then seeing. . that, you know? It just feels wrong, sometimes the feeling is unbearable, sometimes I don't notice it. But i'd like the ability to feel comfortable in a bikini and all the other clothes i've been avoiding. And to experience intimacy without having to imagine to be comfortable.
The thing holding me back though is i'm afraid. I'm afraid of dying on the table, leaving my girlfriend of 2 years. I'm afraid of complications that happen in surgery that could result in my eventual death and even more suffering. I'm afraid of waking up and thinking I made a huge mistake. To a lesser extent i'm afraid of no having sensitivity. I know that a lot of MtF girls have that, and I probably could learn to live without it but i'd really like to be intimate that way with my partner and feel good during the process.
Ugh, between my anxiety problems my wants my worries the time timit and all the doctors and letters and pre-surgery stuff and death and complications, it's all much too much. But at the same time, I know if I pass this up I might regret it for the rest of my life.
Has anyone else experienced these feelings? If so, if you have any advice or anything to maybe comfort me i'd appreciate your wisdom very much. Thank you in advance, I look forward to hearing your responces.