What made you unhappy today? 7.0

[maksim]

Great to hear you're now more confident within your gender identity;  having read your earlier posts.
I'm a very fem trans man as well who has an ftm friend who is also very fem and cos plays as female manga characters. He's very good at it.

Feminine male solidarity 

If I could like this reply I would! But I can't, so I'll just say thanks for it

[HappyMoni]

It is a beautiful day today. I'm supposed to go out to some street party, maybe hear music, stuff I like to do. All I feel is incredibly, horribly, grumpy, ready to chew people's heads off. Haven't felt that in a long time. Maybe it will help that I say it. Arrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrh!

[Laurie]

It is a beautiful day today. I'm supposed to go out to some street party, maybe hear music, stuff I like to do. All I feel is incredibly, horribly, grumpy, ready to chew people's heads off. Haven't felt that in a long time. Maybe it will help that I say it. Arrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrh!

  You can be grumpy and chew on me if it will help.

Hugs,
  Laurie

[Charlie Nicki]

Great to hear you're now more confident within your gender identity;  having read your earlier posts.
I'm a very fem trans man as well who has an ftm friend who is also very fem and cos plays as female manga characters. He's very good at it.

Feminine male solidarity 

Haha wow!! I have to say that is kinda awesome. Are you guys attracted to men?

[Charlie Nicki]

Sunday was really tough for me. I woke up feeling lonely and sad. Nothing really happened, I just felt that way. Today I feel way better and stable, I just need to keep myself busy.

[V M]

I'm afraid I have moved from contemplation into the planning stage    Sorry

[Cindy ✅]

I'm afraid I have moved from contemplation into the planning stage    Sorry

I'm on skype Sis. I may have my own problems but I am your sister and I am here for you.

[maksim]

Haha wow!! I have to say that is kinda awesome. Are you guys attracted to men?

I can't answer for Elis, but personally I'm bisexual with a preference for men, but I have a wonderful girlfriend who I love with all my heart.

[maksim]

The depression is seriously starting to hit me now. Gotta love bipolar.

[Elis]

Haha wow!! I have to say that is kinda awesome. Are you guys attracted to men?

Thanks . I'm definitely demisexual but unsure which gender I'm more romantically attracted too. My friend is asexual too but happens to be gay.

[Charlie Nicki]

 I see, that's nice!


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[Michelle_P]

PMS.  Massive PMS.

My admiration for ciswomen and their self-control has risen immeasurably.  How a woman can go through this so many times, and not leave a trail of male bodies in her wake is truely a measure of immense discipline and endurance.

[KathyLauren]

OW, OW, OW, OW, OW!!  I learned today that female skin is a lot more easily damaged than male skin, and it hurts a lot more.

I was getting ready to dump a garden cart loaded with rocks over the edge of the driveway.  Unfortunately, it got too close to the edge and rolled away on me.  (Silly me, I should have chocked the wheels!)  The smart but expensive thing to do would have been to let go and let the cart get smashed to smithereens.  Instead, I tried to control it, and got my shins banged for my trouble.  Nothing broken, just some abrasions and contusions, but damn, that hurt!

I still have scars from the last time I banged my shins.  Now I have a matched set.

[Thessa]

Yesterday my bathroom, toilet and service room was demolished due to water leakage some times ago and they had to remove all the wet material before starting the drying process, which will take a few weeks.

But what makes me really sad and unhappy is that I tried for the past three day to explain that it's not a (lifestyle) choice to transition to a (moderate?) religious person and she was not able a accept that it's a medical condition that is treated like any other medical condition.

She said that I construct everything in my favor and I had to reply that she is (also) cherry picking what fits in her world view. She is always celebrating love and acceptance but when I asked her in case her beloved husband would have an accident or would be struck by illness that would change his outer shell if she would leave him instantly without trying. That's not the same it wouldn't be a choice he wouldn't make, it would happen to him...

She said I compare apples and pears.
Do I?

[HappyMoni]

Thessa,
   Accepting your argument probably would mean she would have to adjust her world view. Too mind blowing or threatening for some. You had a mind and body that didn't match. It is amazing that someone else thinks they can tell you which to adjust. She says your mind. You know that was impossible. Her argument is as leaky as your bathroom was.
Moni

[Laurie]

PMS.  Massive PMS.

My admiration for ciswomen and their self-control has risen immeasurably.  How a woman can go through this so many times, and not leave a trail of male bodies in her wake is truely a measure of immense discipline and endurance.

And you say I can come visit? I'm not sure that would be safe.

[Michelle_P]

PMS.  Massive PMS.

My admiration for ciswomen and their self-control has risen immeasurably.  How a woman can go through this so many times, and not leave a trail of male bodies in her wake is truely a measure of immense discipline and endurance.

And you say I can come visit? I'm not sure that would be safe.

It's under control now.  Mostly.  I think.  The honey badgers have reassured me that everything is just fine now, and I don't need to bother feeding them for a while.  I'm not sure I understand that last bit.

[Charlie Nicki]

Yesterday my bathroom, toilet and service room was demolished due to water leakage some times ago and they had to remove all the wet material before starting the drying process, which will take a few weeks.

But what makes me really sad and unhappy is that I tried for the past three day to explain that it's not a (lifestyle) choice to transition to a (moderate?) religious person and she was not able a accept that it's a medical condition that is treated like any other medical condition.

She said that I construct everything in my favor and I had to reply that she is (also) cherry picking what fits in her world view. She is always celebrating love and acceptance but when I asked her in case her beloved husband would have an accident or would be struck by illness that would change his outer shell if she would leave him instantly without trying. That's not the same it wouldn't be a choice he wouldn't make, it would happen to him...

She said I compare apples and pears.
Do I?

Most religious people are stuck in their ways, trying to convince them (or anyone really) of anything different is impossible. I'd say don't waste your time explaining yourself to her and let her think whatever she wants. You are happy and that's all that matters

[DawnOday ✅]

I binge watched Hand Maids Tale all day today. The show is truly very good. But so much of it is possible it is like reading a forecast of the future. A future my 3 1/2 month old grand daughter will inherit unless we stand up now. It is not a future anyone I know would want to live.

[DawnOday ✅]

Yesterday my bathroom, toilet and service room was demolished due to water leakage some times ago and they had to remove all the wet material before starting the drying process, which will take a few weeks.

But what makes me really sad and unhappy is that I tried for the past three day to explain that it's not a (lifestyle) choice to transition to a (moderate?) religious person and she was not able a accept that it's a medical condition that is treated like any other medical condition.

She said that I construct everything in my favor and I had to reply that she is (also) cherry picking what fits in her world view. She is always celebrating love and acceptance but when I asked her in case her beloved husband would have an accident or would be struck by illness that would change his outer shell if she would leave him instantly without trying. That's not the same it wouldn't be a choice he wouldn't make, it would happen to him...

She said I compare apples and pears.
Do I?

When piety is on the line religious zealots will dig in their heels. Funny how a fairy tale is taken on faith, but science is ignored or construed as trying to construct every thing in our favor. I'll take science over unproven fairy tales any day. Too bad Evangelicals feel they have to interpret everything for us. Anyone with a couple of brain cells can actually do it for ourselves. I used to think I knew this country. I thought love, compassion, empathy were hallmarks of our society. Then I saw Trump throwing paper towels. Invite her to a support group meeting. You can't know what you don't know.but they like to think they do.