I went to a funeral today, and there were a lot of songs, prayers, and speechifying involving the cross and crucifixion. Now, I understand what Christians believe about all that stuff, but the more time I spend outside that faith the more sickening the messaging and such becomes. And it is completely pervasive where I live.
Like, I'm sorry, but such a heavy focus on torture devices and martyrdom is just not a healthy mindset, in my opinion. If someone gets something out of Christianity, through belief or simply community or whatever else they may find in it, then I'm really glad. Whatever floats your spiritual boat, knowhatimean?
But it'd be nice to not have to sit through 20 minutes of such disturbing messaging and imagery when I'm trying to say goodbye to someone.