Hi, Alaska Girl!
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Unfortunately, I can't help you with the age-specific part of your question, since I started at 61. As you can see from my avatar, I look all right for three months on HRT, and my appearance in public is unremarkable. So, at least from a distance, I pass okay. Being considerably younger, you are likely to pass much better than me if you transition.
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