I am itching to come out, but I know I would lose nearly everything. I would almost certainly be disowned by every relative I have. I might even end up homeless. My friends might not react as badly, but coworkers? Some of them would eat me alive. I think this is the source of my anxiety and paranoia, and when those two combine with OCD, I am a worried wreck who can't do anything. I have only ever told my ex, who abused me physically and emotionally for the remainder of our relationship, then ran me up on charges to throw shade off of herself, and my friend Jordynne, who believed everything my ex told her and now thinks im some kind of villain. So telling anyone that I know, I.e. anyone I could turn to, is out of the question because I have nearly lost the ability to trust anyone. I can't even focus on my hobbies anymore. I sit to write, and can't find words, or can't even type because of this. I try to play video games or chess and I lose over and over. I just can't think straight while I try to hold my shell close!