Decided to wear earrings in my left ear again, wife less than please.

[DraconisTiff]

I said that to her when we were going round about the earrings and she said there has to be some physical attraction too. I already feel like a horrible person because I have a VM(virtual machine) on my personal computer where i come to look up all this stuff and talk to ya'll. And i rented a mailbox so i can order stuff and not worry about her finding it. I feel like i'm cheating on her or something, but with myself, if that makes any sense. I wish i could have gotten an appointment before we went on vacation in june, but i have to wait till after.

[Chloe_freebird]

You have to do what's right for you but it's best to be honest to her about your feelings
As the longer you leave it the harder it gets to talk about it or the more hurt she will get
Dont feel bad about yourself alot of us are in similar situations

Xxx I hope all  goes well

Chloe