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Voice feminization tips/guides?

Started by Whimsy, November 01, 2018, 04:34:02 PM

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Whimsy

Hello all. I'm new to this forum, been transitioning for a little over a year (November is my year anniversary on full hormone dosage) and I've been struggling with one aspect in particular...my voice. I know a lot of trans people struggle with this, and I've looked at several guides that haven't really helped me.

Does anyone have access to any good guides or videos about voice feminization tips or techniques? Or does anyone know any good, affordable voice coaches in the Bay area? Any hello would be appreciated.

Thanks so much and good luck in this current, awful political climate to all my brothers and sisters <3
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KathyLauren

Hi, Whimsy!

Welcome to Susan's Place.  Congratulations on your anniversary!

Voice is indeed a problem area for many trans women.  I found it helpful to see a voice therapist.  She wasn't cheap, so I had fewer sessions that would have been ideal, but I learned a lot from her.  Unfortunately, I am at the opposite end of the continent from you, so I can't help you with local recommendations.

One thing I learned from her was not to worry too much about numbers.  All the reference material indicated that I needed to raise my voice by a full octave to get it into official "female range".  I simply couldn't do a full octave without danaging my voice.  (And one of the advantages of working with a therapist is that she was able to tell me when I was doing something damaging, so I could stop doing it.)  So instead of trying for a full octave, I aimed for raising my pitch a fifth, which I could do without injury, and which got me up to the bottom end of the female range.

With practise (it's been a couple of years now), I am now able to start with my voice at that level most of the time.

More important that pitch is the intonation of your voice.  There is not much you can do about the natural resonance of your vocal cavities, but you can alter your how your voice rises and falls as you speak.  Letting your pitch drop at the end of a sentence is very male.  Women keep their pitch up, or even raise it, as they finish talking.

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Northern Star Girl

Quote from: Whimsy on November 01, 2018, 04:34:02 PM
Hello all. I'm new to this forum, been transitioning for a little over a year (November is my year anniversary on full hormone dosage) and I've been struggling with one aspect in particular...my voice. I know a lot of trans people struggle with this, and I've looked at several guides that haven't really helped me.

Does anyone have access to any good guides or videos about voice feminization tips or techniques? Or does anyone know any good, affordable voice coaches in the Bay area? Any hello would be appreciated.

Thanks so much and good luck in this current, awful political climate to all my brothers and sisters <3

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StacyRenee

I've been seeing a voice therapist through the VA. She has me using the EVA app. It's only for iPhone (6 and newer). It's 20 lessons at $5 each for a total of $100. I haven't stuck with it, but I do feel it was helping. It's very methodical. A lot of the early lessons are very basic, but do help to build a foundation for later lessons.

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Katie

One of the best ways to IMPROVE your voice is to simply go full time. It is soo sooooo soooooooo much more real when your neck is on the line in front of the world..... Not saying it is going to make your voice perfect but it certainly will do wonders........
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NatalieRene

Quote from: Katie on November 14, 2018, 01:54:21 PM
One of the best ways to IMPROVE your voice is to simply go full time. It is soo sooooo soooooooo much more real when your neck is on the line in front of the world..... Not saying it is going to make your voice perfect but it certainly will do wonders........
It's funny because it works that way for foreign languages too.

I went to a voice trainer at GWU.
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