Hi I am new here and need a little help.
I am a "man" who struggles to find the real me.
I am going to sexual therapy an she thinks I am a in between person.
It's ok to be a man in most situation but I have girl inside me that wants to come out.
I am engaged with a lovely woman and loves her to bits.
We have two lovely children one boy(5) and a girl(3,5) and a third coming this summer.
So here's the thing.
I have known about this sins I was about 11 but as Manny others I have hidden it away Depp inside me.
And this summer I couldn't Handel it any more.
I vent to the doctor and said I needed to talk to someone.
An it took almost 6 months to get in but now I have started.
I have been there twice now and she thinks I have to come out too her.
I have two friends at work that know of this.
Thay are very accepting and helpful too and I can trust them.
My SO knows some stuff like that I use a epilator under my armpits and uses wax down there, I like leggings instead of baggy sweatpants. And that I like to where thongs.
And she accepts that.
She think I am at therapy for (hitting the wall) mental breakdown.
This is the woman I want to get old with and loves.
Do I come out too her. Or should I stay in?
And how do I tell her?
I don't want the relationship to end because of this but I need to be me too.
Sorry for the bad English I am from norway