I wanted to ask all the experts on this forum a question. Here is the situation:
As some might know I recently ventured out as a woman for the first time in public in a different city about 90-100 miles away. It was great and I would like to do it again, but I have concerns running into someone I know since I am not out of the closet, only my wife knows about my feelings, nobody else. Therefore going out in my home town, which is a small town is out of the picture since I constantly run into someone I know. The mentioned city has a decent size, probably in the 750,000 - 1,000,000 population range. However, I do know some 50-100 people there as well. Granted, the chances of running into someone are slimmer (like .01%), but it has happened before (while presenting male, therefore it wasn't an issue). I don't care too much about people I don't know, but the possibility of encountering people I do know while presenting female is leaving me a little bit on the edge. The last time en femme I felt the risk wasn't too high as the place I went was not a place where my friends and acquaintances would typically go, but I was still nervous about it.
Here are my questions:
Has this happened to any of you ladies before? If one runs into someone they know, how should the situation be handled to prevent further gossip and getting outed even more?
Thanks for your insights.
HM