As I was starting to type this I sneezed... and from across the house my wife said "bless you... not good!" Referring to the fact that I've been working on a much more "delicate" sneeze. This weekend I'm 2-for-4, which isn't bad. But now she says "good one!" Before "bless you". Trans life is weird... 😂
Ok, back to why I was posting...
So just thought I'd sum up this weekend, as I sit here now at the tail end of it.
This weekend I/we accomplished the following (and to save retyping it each time, all of the events listed were done fully dressed: hair and clothing):
Bought (well, ordered) new unmistakable feminine glasses and sunglasses at Lens Crafters
Shopped at Macy's, Marshall's, and TJ MAXX ... and probably came out of those three trips with about 20 new items — and 100% settled on something that will be my "style"... at least initially.
Ate out at two of our typical local restaurants without really thinking anything of it.
In addition to the items purchased in person, another 5-10 items came in the mail, including:
A set of clip on earrings, some clasp bras (those are coming tomorrow, actually), a new rain jacket, and a couple of pairs of casual, comfortable shoes my wife feels like will work for short walks on vacation to restaurants for dinners. But not for long day-long site seeing.
I also came out to 11 more friends, and have received wonderful supportive feedback from 8-of-11 at this point. It's a holiday weekend so I'm assuming that's the delay on hearing from others but obviously who knows.
And lastly, this evening, we just booked our follow up at the hair salon for July 6... with the intention of having my hair topper "attached" that day. Meaning that will be the day I go full-time. We made that call like turning on a light switch. Really not much thought went into it, other than when there was a free day on our calendar and when we could slot into this incredibly busy salon.
Now, what didn't we do?
Went to dinner at our favorite restaurant last night, but in guy mode.
Same when we met our son for dinner on Saturday night, guy mode with that too.
Same thing with grocery shopping this morning. We typically get up, go for a walk and then go the store first thing on a weekend. So that wasn't conducive to putting on my hair... so I didn't.
I mean, there was logic behind each of the above reasons we were in guy mode, but nevertheless... just sharing this in the interest of full disclosure.
Tomorrow, I'm meeting my old boss for coffee in the morning. No one had him as the first friend I'd be meeting after coming out on their bingo card, but that's what's happening.
Will absolutely go in guy mode, mostly because I think it's nicer. I'll be happy to show him pics... and if probably let him know that next time I won't be... but my intention is to make people comfortable, and that seems the way.
Anyway... that was the weekend.
Love,
Allie