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Started by Robbyv213, June 17, 2024, 03:07:56 PM

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Robbyv213

I am feeling really called to come out to a few people tomorrow March 31st on transgender day of visibility.

The people I am considering telling are my shop Foreman at my work, who has always been professional and has always said he is there if I ever need to talk, since he has seen many sides of me over the last few years as I've struggled with accepting myself and starting to begin this journey of transition. I am hoping it gives him some insight as to why things were the way they have been for me over the last two years, and I'm hoping that he may help either bring change to my work, or be able to refer me to another Mercedes dealership that has better policies, insurance etc. Since most shop foremans know one another.

Another being my friend from the gym, who seems to always try to bring the best out of people, and has said in conversation that he has had know people who have transitioned. So neither here no there.

And lastly a friend from when I was a personal trainer back when I lived in ca over 10 years ago, mainly bc he has really made a name for himself as a personal trainer and I want to seek his help in helping me transform my physique, but in order for him to have any chance at success I will need to disclose to him that I'm transitioning.

Whats everyone's opinions or thoughts on this.

I've been feeling the call and urge to finally start taking some leaps of faith and letting the universe do what ever it's going to do when I do take that leap.
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Lori Dee

It sounds like you have picked a good support team if they are on board.

Expect the worst and hope for the best. They may surprise you... good or bad.

Good luck!

I'm proud of you for taking this step to stand up for yourself. Just remember that others' opinions do not matter. But if they are with you, it sure can be helpful.
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Pema

Wow, Robin, that's amazing! Good for you!

I think if you're feeling ready and feeling the urge, then I can't come up with a reason why you shouldn't. I wish I had more to say, but that's really it. When you're ready, you're ready.

Please let us know how it goes.
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Charlotte Kitty

That's great to hear that you feel ready for this. It really is a personal feeling so the time is right when you feel ready. Very much sounds like you are. I think you'll be able to stand tall and really explain your true self.

Nothing is guaranteed, but I think you have a great chance of this going well with your well prepared thoughts.

A deep breath, smile and standing tall really helps if you get nervy.

Wishing you luck and hugs.

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Stottie Girl

It all sounds good to me Robby. I'm no expert as I'm still too chicken to do it myself. But if those were my options, I would tell my former trainer friend first as there is some distance involved if things don't go the way you hope. It could give you the confidence to move on to those closer to you.

Just my two cents worth. Keep us posted how it went though. It is a subject that both interests and scares me in equal measure.

Best of British as we say over here. (Good luck!)

Sarah xx
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Robbyv213

Thanks everyone for the input
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