What is your gender identity?

[Camille58S]

Yes! I feel exactly the same way, Lori! When I first responded to this thread, I still felt that I was male... mainly. But, my journey this year has changed my thinking. I think and respond to the world differently now. There is still a male element to myself. But it is no longer in control. It got absorbed into who I am now. I hope that I'm making sense here. It's hard to explain. I don't get angry anymore. That emotion has been replaced with empathy. I move differently. Slower, more gracefully. I can't say that I am a woman now. I spent my life as a male. I feel that the most honest answer to the gender question is that I am a trans woman.

[KathyLauren]

My gender identity is female.  If pressed, I will admit to being trans-female.  And, if pressed harder, I will admit that my femaleness is probably not 100% binary.  Close to it, though: I am much closer to being binary female than to any variety of non-binary.

My sex (meaning the configuration of my genitals) has changed, thanks to the good surgeon.  And my paperwork has changed to match.  My gender identity has not changed.  I now understand that I have always been female, since at least as far back as I can remember, and likely back to before I was born.  They told me that I was male, but they were wrong.

[AlisonM]

My gender identity is female.  If pressed, I will admit to being trans-female.  And, if pressed harder, I will admit that my femaleness is probably not 100% binary.  Close to it, though: I am much closer to being binary female than to any variety of non-binary.

The only way to know that I am trans is the style of clothing I wear (only because I haven't come out yet to my family), my hair length and my genitals... and I plan to remedy all of them in the near future.

[darilee]

I am me, the face of a male and the body of a women. all 128 lbs. of me and gorgeous C-cup breasts. I'm not interested in pigeonholing myself theirs enough people doing that already. I always wear women's under clothing and at times I'll wear women's outer clothing and sometimes I'll wear men's. It's whatever makes me feel comfortable for that particular day. But one thing seems to always be the same once my day ends and I'm at home relaxing with my wife I'm all women, and thats it. It never changes, so what am I? that's actually an easy one I'm me.

[Northern Star Girl ✅]

@darilee
Dear Darilee: 
Perfectly and wonderfully stated. 
I am so happy to read that you are confident in who you are.  I like what you stated about
wearing women's or men's clothing and that you will wear whatever makes you comfortable for
a particular day... and that when you day ends you are at you home relaxing with you wife.

Thank for sharing your lovely story.
HUGS, Danielle [Northern Star Girl]
    The Forum Administrator

I am me, the face of a male and the body of a women. all 128 lbs. of me and gorgeous C-cup breasts. I'm not interested in pigeonholing myself theirs enough people doing that already. I always wear women's under clothing and at times I'll wear women's outer clothing and sometimes I'll wear men's. It's whatever makes me feel comfortable for that particular day. But one thing seems to always be the same once my day ends and I'm at home relaxing with my wife I'm all women, and that's it. It never changes, so what am I? that's actually an easy one I'm me.