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Is the tipping culture getting out of hand?

Started by ChrissyRyan, December 28, 2024, 07:42:22 PM

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Is the tipping culture getting out of hand?  (Vote for up to three choices)

Yes. There are too many requests for voluntary tipping
2 (16.7%)
Yes. There are too many tip-like mandatory "service charges" at restaurants
1 (8.3%)
Yes, tip requests are of excessive percentages and it's harder with "check out tablet paying" to avoid tipping
5 (41.7%)
No, because many owners do not pay a reasonable wage and tips are counted on for living expenses
1 (8.3%)
No, I can always easily decide what and when to tip without any pressure
2 (16.7%)
No, I have always tipped regardless of what I knew about worker's wages.
0 (0%)
I do not know either way because in our society tipping is usually not expected.
1 (8.3%)

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Lori Dee

Quote from: Charlotte Kitty on May 02, 2026, 11:29:15 AMI never tipped when i was in the US...i bet they hated me. But unless its on the receipt included i cant claim it back on my work expenses and wasn't going to pay out of my pocket!

Most receipts have a blank line where you can write how much you left as a tip, in case you left cash on the table for "table rent". Here, most employers accept that for reimbursement as long as the tip is reasonable. Claiming you left a $100 tip for a $30 meal might raise some eyebrows.
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ChrissyRyan

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If a tip is automatically added, it cannot be claimed by the employee as income subject to the "no tax on tips" legal annual USA limit.  A payment machine or bill can suggest a tip but the spirit of a tip is that it is a reward voluntarily given by the patron.  Thus a forced tip is not voluntary, it becomes a cost of the meal or service.  Hence those would be 100% taxable to the employee receiving that forced tip.

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Finally Anna

Waking up a slumbering thread. ;)
Over here, the payment terminals nowadays almost always ask about leaving a tip, but when they do I don't tip. If they don't, then I will consider rounding up the total a little bit depending on how I appreciated the service and the food.

It needs to be said that the wages paid here are fair so the staff does not rely on tip for their income. When in the US I follow the normal procedures, aka 15-20% tip - the staff does not work for free and they need their wages paid via tipping. I try to follow whatever customs in the places I visit, beacuse it is the decent thing to do.

EDIT: That applied regardless of whether I got reimbursed or not. I could afford some tipping even if not reimbursed, when I travelled for business.
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Devlyn

Like anything else, circumstances vary. It's not a monolith. Workers in budget family restaurants where the average check is low may not make much. Ask a Hooter's girl if she wants a flat rate $20 per hour wage and she'll likely laugh in your face.
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Finally Anna

Quote from: Devlyn on Today at 06:47:58 AMAsk a Hooter's girl if she wants a flat rate $20 per hour wage and she'll likely laugh in your face.
True that, and it's probably an indication of the tipping having gone severely out of hand. ;)
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Devlyn

Card dealers rely on tips too, at least the last I knew.
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ChrissyRyan

I noticed that suggested tipping percentages and their corresponding amounts on payment screens usually now  (1) base that percentage not on the before tax amount but after all taxes and service fees, and (2) the lowest optional percentage amount listed now seems to be (18%) and DEFAULT %, unless you change it, is often set to be 20% if not 22%.



Always stay cheerful, be polite, kind, and understanding. Accepting yourself as the woman you are is very liberating.  Never underestimate the appreciation and respect of authenticity.  Help connect a person to someone that may be able to help that person.  Be brave, be strong.  A TRUE friend is a treasure.  Relationships are very important, people are important, and the sooner we all realize that the better off the world will be.  Try a little kindness.  Be generous with your time, energy, wisdom, and resources.   Inconvenience yourself to help someone.   I am a brown eyed, brown haired woman. 
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Finally Anna

A case for lowering the tip percentage then. Tipping based on taxes and service fees feels like a kind of skimming.
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