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Mariah

Thank You. @ChrissyRyan  I do appreciate the advise you are trying to give. It is much appreciated. Hugs
Mariah
Quote from: ChrissyRyan on September 01, 2026, 06:33:15 PMBig HUGS to you Mariah.


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ChrissyRyan

I am thinking that you should be able to buy COBRA insurance, resigning or not, and it will be the same policy you have, if you have health insurance policy through your employer.  This makes a lot of sense for this year, especially so if all your copays, deductibles, and your out of pocket maximum have been reached.  If you do not have insurance from your employer than this COBRA does not matter. After this year, you will need to see if it makes sense to pay the COBRA rate.  It might.  I think you can be on COBRA for 18 months max.  But check this out as I am not an expert for sure on insurance, SSDisability, and employment laws.

Hugs,

Chrissy
Always stay cheerful, be polite, kind, and understanding. Accepting yourself as the woman you are is very liberating.  Never underestimate the appreciation and respect of authenticity.  Help connect a person to someone that may be able to help that person.  Be brave, be strong.  A TRUE friend is a treasure.  Relationships are very important, people are important, and the sooner we all realize that the better off the world will be.  Try a little kindness.  Be generous with your time, energy, wisdom, and resources.   Inconvenience yourself to help someone.   I am a brown eyed, brown haired woman. 

Mariah

I will start Cobra middle of this month because work is covering to the 15th after that Cobra will take over and be the plan tell my spouse has insurance to cover both of us. Even then we may choose to use Cobra through the end of the year before moving to Jamie's work insurance. Hugs
Mariah
Quote from: ChrissyRyan on September 01, 2026, 07:05:08 PMI am thinking that you should be able to buy COBRA insurance, resigning or not, and it will be the same policy you have, if you have health insurance policy through your employer.  This makes a lot of sense for this year, especially so if all your copays, deductibles, and your out of pocket maximum have been reached.  If you do not have insurance from your employer than this COBRA does not matter. After this year, you will need to see if it makes sense to pay the COBRA rate.  It might.  I think you can be on COBRA for 18 months max.  But check this out as I am not an expert for sure on insurance, SSDisability, and employment laws.

Hugs,

Chrissy

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Mariah

It's nice to have my old workplace in the rear view mirror so to speak as I meander what comes next. I have been getting lots of love from our to pets. They really do love to cuddle, but then again so does my spouse. In the process of gathering what is needed to move forward. Hugs
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Lori Dee

Quote from: Mariah on September 05, 2026, 03:16:19 PMIt's nice to have my old workplace in the rear view mirror so to speak as I meander what comes next. I have been getting lots of love from our to pets. They really do love to cuddle, but then again so does my spouse. In the process of gathering what is needed to move forward. Hugs
Mariah

Someone once said to me:

The reason the rearview mirror is so small compared to the windshield is because...
YOU'RE NOT GOING THAT WAY!

It never hurts to look back and see where you have been. Just keep your focus on what's ahead.

I think you already know that.

Hugs!
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Mariah

Tis true, I do. I know it is for the best. It's nice to have that weight lifted off me. Hugs
Mariah
Quote from: Lori Dee on September 05, 2026, 05:43:53 PMSomeone once said to me:

The reason the rearview mirror is so small compared to the windshield is because...
YOU'RE NOT GOING THAT WAY!

It never hurts to look back and see where you have been. Just keep your focus on what's ahead.

I think you already know that.

Hugs!
Quote from: Lori Dee on September 05, 2026, 05:43:53 PMSomeone once said to me:

The reason the rearview mirror is so small compared to the windshield is because...
YOU'RE NOT GOING The beAT WAY!

It never hurts to look back and see where you have been. Just keep your focus on what's ahead.

I think you already know that.

Hugs!
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Mariah

Today my spouse started her new job and it is my first chance where I can just fully relax before I have to get a few things done this week to smooth out the transition and begin the application process for social security disability. As of now, I still have a few things to accomplish because deadlines exist for them, but eventually I will be able to rest more. Hugs
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Lori Dee

Glad you can finally get things moving.

Ages ago, when I was fighting Social Security for my disability claim, a woman at the SS office told me that 80% of initial claims are denied, and 60% are denied on appeal. That was where I was at that stage. She said that it changes if you have an attorney and ask for a review. Then it goes up to 70% approved.

I hired an attorney (no cost - they get paid by SS) and got the case in front of an Administrative Judge. They have 90 days to decide, and he took 89.99999 days. Overall, the process took 18 months. During that time, I had a few family tragedies, and I ended up losing everything (bankruptcy, foreclosure, unable to work) and almost ended up homeless. I had no idea it would be that difficult.

Plan ahead, just in case. Prepare for the worst and hope for the best. I think your situation may get approved right away, and that's what I am hoping for you. Good luck.
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Mariah

Lori, Thank you. I plan on involving an attorney in the mix just in case. My situation is unique, but the overwhelming case of everything together makes it hard for it not to get approved right off the bat or upon appeal. Anyway yeah I'm prepared ahead and know what to expect. Even my old workplace admitted they saw nothing they would be able to do because of how bad my health situation is. Anywho my focus right now is get the new insurance set up and then gather everything social security needs and apply. Hugs
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Mariah

I saw the urologist today and provided a urine sample that we now have to wait on. I'm still having to eat fairly bland foods due to the healing of the colon. I'm glad that as of now I will be able to go to church Sunday, unless I end up back in the hospital before then. It changed what we are bringing to the potluck so I could eat something too. I will be glad to see people. Human interaction is so important sometimes. Hugs
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ChrissyRyan

Quote from: Mariah on Today at 04:06:38 PMI saw the urologist today and provided a urine sample that we now have to wait on. I'm still having to eat fairly bland foods due to the healing of the colon. I'm glad that as of now I will be able to go to church Sunday, unless I end up back in the hospital before then. It changed what we are bringing to the potluck so I could eat something too. I will be glad to see people. Human interaction is so important sometimes. Hugs
Mariah


I hope it all works out for you to enjoy this weekend.

Hugs,

Chrissy


Always stay cheerful, be polite, kind, and understanding. Accepting yourself as the woman you are is very liberating.  Never underestimate the appreciation and respect of authenticity.  Help connect a person to someone that may be able to help that person.  Be brave, be strong.  A TRUE friend is a treasure.  Relationships are very important, people are important, and the sooner we all realize that the better off the world will be.  Try a little kindness.  Be generous with your time, energy, wisdom, and resources.   Inconvenience yourself to help someone.   I am a brown eyed, brown haired woman. 

Mariah

Me too. For now it is working out. Hugs
Mariah
Quote from: ChrissyRyan on Today at 06:29:08 PMI hope it all works out for you to enjoy this weekend.

Hugs,

Chrissy



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