The most uncomfortable situations you were in as a MTF presenting as female

[Tills]

It may not have helped that when I returned from Thailand as 'me', following facial surgery and going full time femme, I met up with him and his mother.

He was 10 years old. He stood there looking me up and down, turned to his mother and said:

'She's more elegant and beautiful than you.'

 


Later though he started getting teased at school which is where the trouble started. I'm going slightly off topic here but it became a very 'uncomfortable' time for everyone involved.

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[Anne_lifetrip]

The Doorbell.

Same here...when I stay at home working, I fully dress as myself in comfortable clothes and I forget that I am dressed.
It was an Amazon box that arrived and I went out...the face of the guy was a poem  .
Initially I didn't understand why, until I got back home and realised...
Anyway, I lived it and loved it.

[NancyDrew1930]

I just had a rather uncomfortable situation today at work.  I was wearing a skirt and pantyhose today, and I had to use the ladies room.  So I went into a stall, did my thing, then when I was going to leave, the toilet decided to plug.  So I I tried to flush it a few times, but it wouldn't dislodge the plug (luckily the water was going down around it, so it wasn't overflowing), and I was thinking that I'll let maintenance know that it was plugged.  However, what I didn't realize, when I was pulling up my panties and pantyhose, I had accidentally tucked the front of my skirt into my pantyhose.  So I exited the stall and one of my coworkers was drying her hands, and immediately she sees that my skirt is in my pantyhose and tells me to pull it out quickly.  I quickly said to her "sorry" and pulled out my skirt!  Unfortunately, this is the same coworker who, a few weeks ago, questioned why I was using the women's washroom.  So that was quite embarassing and uncomfrotable situation today!

[Charlotte_Ringwood]

So that was quite embarassing and uncomfrotable situation today!

That definitely sounds embarrassing, and of course happens in front of the worst possible person! I hope that they just keep it low key and then it's forgotten about in a few days by you both.

A client once caught a view of my panties cos my dress was too short at work. I was in boymode too with facial hair! Worst I was wearing these strawberry print bloomer style panties, kinda being a bit naughty!

We just gotta be ourselves always!

[Cynthia Brown]

My most uncomfortable situation was a couple of years ago.  I was at home fully presenting, high heels short skirt, wig makeup and I had forgotten that someone was coming to check on my generator and electrical system.  He rang the doorbell and I saw on the ring who it was and I had to open the door.  By the way the doors to our house are mostly glass so as I walked up to unlock it he got the full view.  I am not passable, working at getting more presentable. I let him in and gingerly walked sideways down the stairs to the basement.  I just said I hope that you can be discrete and left it at that.  It was an annual inspection, I have not seen him again who knows what if anything he said to his co-workers.  What upset me so much was I am quite comfortable away from my house, shopping, having coffee, sitting at a bar or when traveling in a different city.  This is the first time someone could connect Cynthia to my boy side.

[Simplycause]

Since I cross dress in secret/in the closet for the time being twice my wife came home from work early.

She worked overnights. So the routine I got down was I'd get home from work, we'd eat dinner, she'd go to work. The kid and I would watch some t.v. and hang out until he decided he wanted to go upstairs and get in his computer or talk to his friends.

Wife would leave for work at 7:30 kid would usually hang out another hour. So I set aside an hour or 2 for girl time.

Nylons, shows, bra, panties, what ever top. Sometimes I would paint my toes and take the polish off the day before her days off.

Once I was in the middle of "changing" and I hears the door chime, on the alarm panel and then I heard the gate we've got to keep the dogs out of the hallway. I literally ripped off the hose and threw them in built in drawer the bed has. She came home early becuase of a migraine.

The second time, she switched to early mornings (4a.m. to 2 p.m. and 1 short day) I had to run an errand for work and decided to go home and change into panties and a sports bra. We use an extra bedroom as a closet, my girl clothes are in the garage so I grab some stuff out of my trunk. I take my pants and boxers off, put the panties on, and go oh...I need to grab something off my nightstand, I'm in the hallway in grey panties holding a bra and I hear the gate. Didn't hear the door chime. So I dove into the closet and shut the door, and got my jeans on as fast as I could.

When she asked why I was home I said I got rained on doing some work outside so I decided to change clothes while I was doing the bank run. Which was partly true. I was outside measuring for a sign but I missed the rain.

[Tills]

What were the most uncomfortable situations you were in as a MTF presenting as female?

Either scary or threatening to you, or you otherwise really felt unwelcome.  Perhaps you thought that you thought that you should not be there at that moment and wished you were not there?

Way back in 2014 when I first transitioned and was put into that 'Real Life Experience' mode that they no longer follow.

It was the first time I went to the gender appointment and I was wearing a wig. Two blokes in a lorry shouted out the window. Something unpleasant I think. It was more the fact that they shouted at me at all. Previously in my life I'd existed without attention!

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