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The Story of Lori, Chapter 2

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Lori Dee

Busy week this week, so I will just be popping in and out when I can.

Yesterday, I had an electrolysis appointment, and a cancellation happened, so I will go back tomorrow afternoon. I am lucky that I am retired, so when she has a cancellation, she allows me to fill the slot for her.

This afternoon, I have a therapy appointment. Then Thursday, I will be hanging out with friends for Thanksgiving.

Who says the holidays are stressful? Busy is a good kind of stress.

No regrets, no excuses, make it happen.

😁


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Lori Dee

My therapist asked how my electrolysis sessions were going.

I told her that they were going well. The electrologist is more than good at her job; she is a wonderful human being.

But I still have to wonder...

What kind of person enjoys stabbing people in the face with electrified needles over and over for hours every day? What does that say about her?

The therapist said, "Well, you volunteered for it. And you are going back tomorrow. What does that say about you?"

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Sarah B

Hi Lori

Quote from: Lori Dee on November 25, 2025, 06:10:22 PMThe therapist said, "Well, you volunteered for it. And you are going back tomorrow. What does that say about you?"
😆😮🤡

Touché!  😄😂🤣

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Sarah B
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Sarah B

Hi Lori

Quote from: Lori Dee on November 25, 2025, 06:10:22 PMThe therapist said, "Well, you volunteered for it. And you are going back tomorrow. What does that say about you?"
😆😮🤡

Masochist!  😄😂🤣

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Sarah B

Hi Lori

Okay one more for the road!

Quote from: Lori Dee on November 25, 2025, 06:10:22 PMThe therapist said, "Well, you volunteered for it. And you are going back tomorrow. What does that say about you?"
😆😮🤡

I fear a five o'clock shadow more than pain  😄😂🤣

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And Sarah...I really hate shaving!!!

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Lori Dee

The VA Endocrinology Saga continues...

Back in October, I had a "new patient" appointment with the Regional VA Endocrinology department in Aurora, CO. I wrote about that previously.

I met with my Primary doctor here in Pueblo. I explained to her that I did not trust them because they wanted to change my prescriptions without reviewing my medical history or even ordering lab work. I also explained that driving for two hours one-way for a one-hour appointment (and they were 45 minutes late), plus another two-hour drive home, was not something I could do. With my lower spine problems and fused vertebrae in my neck, it is too painful.

She submitted a referral for me to be seen here in Pueblo. The consult was sent to the Care In The Community Coordinator, where it sat for weeks. I finally received a call from the Regional Endo clinic in Aurora. They cancelled the consult and set me up to do a TeleHealth appointment with them by phone... in March 2026. GRRRRRR.

I spoke with my therapist about this, and she pointed out that veterans can refuse TeleHealth appointments in favor of a face-to-face appointment.  Yay! So my Primary doctor resubmitted the referral to Care In The Community. Meanwhile, the Regional Endo Clinic changed the status of my hormone prescriptions from "Active" to "Pending".

Fortunately, before I left South Dakota, I had my gynecologist renew all of my prescriptions. They shipped them out right away, which gave me a small stockpile. But it also gave me two more refills. So when I saw that some of my meds were showing as "Pending", I found the older prescriptions with the refills available and placed the order.
😁

At the end of October, I received two letters from the VA confirming that my referral to a local Endocrinologist had been submitted. Another couple of weeks went by, and no appointment. Then I got a call from the CITC Coordinator telling me the nearest clinic they could send me to is UC Health in Colorado Springs. She said they have no one in Pueblo, so I agreed.

Another week goes by, and I get a message from the CITC Coordinator that they need to know when my appointment is scheduled. I told them that no one has contacted me, and they said someone will soon. So I wait. On Sunday, I got a message from CITC telling me that I need to call UC Health and schedule an appointment within 48 hours. ??? Not on Sunday, they are closed.

Today, I went online to get the phone number for UC Health Endocrinology. Guess what? They have a clinic in Pueblo, within walking distance of the Pueblo VA Clinic. What the ???
I called that clinic first. They said the referral was sent to Colorado Springs, so they can't help me. The referral would need to go directly to them.

So I called UC Health in Colorado Springs. Yes, they received the referral and denied it. All "gender-affirming care" is done at their clinic in Aurora! Well, the VA will not refer me to a clinic in Aurora since they have their own clinic in Aurora, which is where I am trying to get away from.

So I sent a message to the CITC Coordinator informing them that my referral was denied, and apparently no place in Southern Colorado that can see me.

So while our favorite electrologist was stabbing me in the face with electrified needles, a plan began to come together. When I got home, I called the Women's Health Clinic in Rapid City, SD, and left a message for my gynecologist. I said that, as an existing patient, I would like to continue my care with her via TeleHealth. Then I left a message for my Primary doctor that, since there is no endocrinology clinic available to me in the area, and the only way to be seen without driving to Aurora is via TeleHealth, I have a preferred provider that I would like to resume care with.

Everyone at the Women's Health Clinic, except my gynecologist, her nurse, and scheduler, assumes that I am there being treated for menopause due to my age. I was reminded of this during my mammogram appointment here last week. So, technically, I am not receiving "gender-affirming care" through them as that would offend the VA's sensibilities. I just don't understand why they can't do it the same way here. We will see.

Now, everyone is out of the office for the holiday, so I doubt I will receive any replies from anyone until next week. But a plan is in motion.

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Lori Dee

The Thanksgiving Holiday for me marks the end of my mining season. When in South Dakota, I would have already been winterizing the gear (draining water out of pumps and hoses) and getting things ready for winter storage.

I did not get much mining done in 2025. In planning for the move to Colorado, the gear was prepped and packed by May. I keep a few prospecting tools in my Jeep in case I am cruising down the highway and spot a huge vein of gold. 😁 But all the big stuff gets packed up.

Since the move here, the heavy gear is still packed up in the "office" (spare bedroom). I have only been out scouting a few times, so no need for it yet. We have been having a warm, dry season so far, and if the weather holds, I may still be able to scout a bit more in the near future.

I am now switching operations from gold mining to rock polishing. I brought about 40 lbs of stones with me from South Dakota. Most are already in various stages of polishing. All three rock tumblers have been rebuilt, oiled, and are ready to start rolling. The rocks have been sorted from rough to jewelry-ready. Tomorrow will be the day to get that started. As long as the ground isn't frozen, I still plan to do some rockhounding and collect more material, so that when the snow flies, I will have enough to keep me busy for the rest of the winter. Between that and researching gold sites for next Spring, I can stay indoors until my food runs out. 😬

A friend told me that every day that it does not snow here sets a new record. Typically, our first snowfall happens around the end of October or early November. Now it is almost December, and still no snow. I am not a fan of snow, but in Colorado, we rely on the snowmelt in Spring to fill our reservoirs that supply our drinking water. Not enough snow means not enough water. And we have been in a drought for years. That means rivers are running low and the water table is dropping. It isn't as bad as parts of California yet, but we are headed in that direction.

When rivers run low, erosion is at a minimum, which means not much new gold gets exposed in deposits. That isn't good either. We don't need a flood, but we do need quite a bit of snow and rain at a steady rate each month to keep us going.

We will see what happens.
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I would send you some of our rain if I could, its wet all next week here more or less.
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Quote from: davina61 on November 30, 2025, 03:03:08 AMI would send you some of our rain if I could, its wet all next week here more or less.

Thanks, Davina.

We have a slight chance of snow tonight (a light dusting up to 1/2"), which will melt quickly. The mountain passes could get up to an inch, higher elevations up to six inches, and up to eight inches in the Sangre de Cristo Mountains above 11,000 feet.

Then we warm up for a bit with the next chance of snow on Wednesday. There is a lot of snow falling in the higher mountains on the Western Slope (west of the Continental Divide). The clouds dump their moisture as they cross the Divide, and run out by the time they get to the Eastern side. Some of the collection reservoirs are on the west side with pipes that tunnel through the mountains to the east side. It is an impressive engineering feat.

Many decades ago, my brother worked for a county water department up north, and he gave me a tour and showed me where our water comes from. Where things are really complicated is the politics of local water rights. Once the water touches the ground, it becomes the property of someone, and they can control how much is allowed to flow downstream. The city of Loveland, where I went to high school, has a large lake right in the middle of the city (Loveland Lake). That water is owned by the city of Greeley, 21 miles to the east. It is insanity.
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Dances With Trees

A bit of Montana lore: according to my high school history teacher, more Montanans have been killed over water than over women. Considering my evolving gender status, I find that oddly comforting.

Lori Dee

Quote from: Dances With Trees on November 30, 2025, 10:39:44 AMA bit of Montana lore: according to my high school history teacher, more Montanans have been killed over water than over women. Considering my evolving gender status, I find that oddly comforting.

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Lori Dee

I now have all three rock tumblers rolling. That's 15 lbs of stones being polished. Each barrel holds three lbs of stones. The first machine has one barrel, and the other two have two barrels each. Next Sunday, I'll open them up and see which ones need another week (or more) and which ones are ready to move to the next barrel.

Now that I have that part of my office cleared, I started working on other small projects that have been sitting. I still have several rocks that I picked up while metal detecting. Some have been reduced in size with my Phase I Rock Crusher (3 lb machinist's hammer). That gets them small enough to fit into the Phase II Pulverizer, which is a handheld rock crusher that can reduce soft rocks to sand. Quartzes and jaspers are much harder and require more effort, so I only take them down to gravel size. They rarely need to be crushed, though.

That cleared enough room for me to finish up another project. I rewired an LED Rope Light to work off 12 VDC. I soldered a connector to it, so now I can mount it in the back of the Jeep for a work light. There is a 12 VDC outlet back there, so it can be plugged in easily and is out of the way when not in use.
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Lori Dee

@davina61

The rain you sent us has arrived. Thank you!

This was last night at 11:30 PM. This morning, the sun is out, but it is 26°F. It won't last long, as tomorrow's forecast says 51°F.  It's the thought that counts.

Our next chance of snow is on Wednesday.

Happy December!

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Lori Dee

Another anniversary today!

On this day, 12/12/2022, I was in court in South Dakota. When I walked out, I was officially Lori Dee XXXXXX.

That was the beginning of a whirlwind of activity in the social transition arena. With the court order in hand, I updated my medical records at the VA, got a new driver's license, vehicle registration, Social Security card, updated banking and credit report records, credit cards, housing records, birth certificate, and passport (my first ever). All of my records now show my correct name and gender.

As time goes by, my deadname falls out of these systems because a new history has been established. Credit reports only track the past two years of activity, with the exceptions of judgments and bankruptcies. Two years from now, it will be something that only exists in archives.

Today, I will be celebrating by engaging in my favorite pastime: Gold panning!

I'll let you know how that turns out.

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ChrissyRyan

Looks like everything already panned out in 2022.

Chrissy
Always stay cheerful, be polite, kind, and understanding. Accepting yourself as the woman you are is very liberating.  Never underestimate the appreciation and respect of authenticity.  Help connect a person to someone that may be able to help that person.  Be brave, be strong.  A TRUE friend is a treasure.  Relationships are very important, people are important, and the sooner we all realize that the better off the world will be.  Try a little kindness.  Be generous with your time, energy, wisdom, and resources.   Inconvenience yourself to help someone.   I am a brown eyed, brown haired woman. 

Lori Dee

Quote from: ChrissyRyan on December 12, 2025, 07:33:03 PMLooks like everything already panned out in 2022.

Chrissy


It did indeed. It set the trajectory of the direction I was headed, and there is no looking back.

"Today is the first day of the rest of your life."

Live accordingly.
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