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Quote from: Sephirah on June 21, 2026, 06:04:11 PMThe constitution, as laid down, is grossly misinterpreted and misrepresented these days, in my opinion. It's people seeing what they want to see, rather than the intent it was written up with. From an outsider's perspective.

Could not agree more. Unfortunately it has been that way for decades.

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It looks like my trip to the mountains is being postponed.

My plan was to spend the 4th of July weekend prospecting in the gold fields. I have been waiting to have an MRI on my left knee to see if the torn meniscus has gotten worse. My Primary doctor said she can give me the cortisone injection, but wants to see the condition of the meniscus first.

She sent a referral to the VA in Colorado Springs, who told me that their earliest appointment would be in September. Yeah, I want to waste my entire summer in pain waiting for an MRI so I can get a cortisone injection. I requested that they send the referral to the local hospital here in Pueblo so they can get me in sooner.

I wait and wait. On Saturday, I got an email from the VA saying they sent the referral to the hospital. Yay! And gave me the number to call to set up an appointment.

This morning, I called the number. It is for Radiation/Oncology Therapy, not Radiology. I called the main hospital number and got redirected to Radiology Scheduling. They have no referral for me from the VA or anyone else yet.

Exactly four and a half minutes later, I received an email stating that I needed to check the information on my account in the hospital's patient portal app. I log in and see a message that my MRI appointment has been scheduled...
for the morning of July 4th.

Of course! Why make it convenient for anything that I want to do? ARRRRGH

It will take 3 - 5 business days for the radiologist to read the MRI, write a report, and send it to the VA. The hospital is good about sending me a copy via mail. Once I receive that, I can contact my Primary to schedule an appointment for the cortisone shot. That could take another week or more.

Also in July, we should hear from our Property Manager about the sale of the property and how badly the new owners plan to jack up our rent. So my downtime is not wasted. I am still househunting for a place to rent or buy that will cost about the same as my rent. That will get me out of the mobile home and into a place with a solid foundation, get away from the road that people think is a 24/7 dragstrip, and away from the morons who routinely set off illegal fireworks year-round. No place is perfect, but I think I can do a lot better than this.

Overall, life is good.

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Well despite the less than ideal timing, that's great to hear you'll get your scan much sooner. Unfortunately when it comes to that kinda stuff everything else just has to go on hold. I hope once you have that done you'll be on track to be in much less pain. If then you eventually sort your living situation, it'll hopefully be a positive year for you.

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Quote from: Charlotte Kitty on June 22, 2026, 02:32:11 PMWell despite the less than ideal timing, that's great to hear you'll get your scan much sooner. Unfortunately when it comes to that kinda stuff everything else just has to go on hold. I hope once you have that done you'll be on track to be in much less pain. If then you eventually sort your living situation, it'll hopefully be a positive year for you.

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Thanks, Charlotte.

Fortunately, the Army trained me well with over 14 years of Hurry Up and Wait.

I always have something to do, so I don't get bored and can fill wait times with other useful activities. I have almost finished writing my second novel and am now polishing the prose. I must say that it is turning out SO much better than my first!
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I had a ride in a roadster yesterday late in the afternoon.  I asked if the top could be lowered, and it could. There I sit in the passenger seat for a nice ride.  I felt like I was like 25 again, for about 45 minutes at least.





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Hurry up and wait was the moto at the drag track, tanoy announcement "class *** to pairing lanes NOW" and then sit there for 30 mins waiting to run!
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ChrissyRyan

A review of metal detectors from Popular Mechanics:


https://www.popularmechanics.com/technology/gear/a32968255/best-metal-detectors/ 🔗


It may be fun to try a detector.

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Quote from: ChrissyRyan on June 26, 2026, 07:58:21 PMA review of metal detectors from Popular Mechanics:


https://www.popularmechanics.com/technology/gear/a32968255/best-metal-detectors/ 🔗


It may be fun to try a detector.



It seems these reviews always claim the same brands are the "best".

They did not mention the Garrett. I've been using my Garrett AT Gold Pro for almost ten years. It has never failed me, and I think the price per pound puts the Garrett ahead of the others.

My dad and my neighbor both have Minelab machines. They are good for what they do, but they can't do what mine does. Every time we have gone out detecting, I have out-detected them in a variety of terrains.

Do they find coins and jewelry? Yes.
Do they find gold? No, not yet.

The key to a metal detector is to a) get a machine that finds the kind of targets you seek, and b) practice, practice, practice. If you don't understand what the machine is telling you, you will miss a lot of targets. The only way to really learn your machine is to use it a lot.
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Yes watching Ozzie Gold Hunters they use quite big head units and can tell from the hit sound if its gold or metal. Working an old water course on the bends turns up some good bits ,10 gram or bigger.
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Hunting for gold! Sounds like a fun activity. 💰
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Quote from: Lori Dee on June 26, 2026, 09:25:01 PMIt seems these reviews always claim the same brands are the "best".

They did not mention the Garrett. I've been using my Garrett AT Gold Pro for almost ten years. It has never failed me, and I think the price per pound puts the Garrett ahead of the others.

My dad and my neighbor both have Minelab machines. They are good for what they do, but they can't do what mine does. Every time we have gone out detecting, I have out-detected them in a variety of terrains.

Do they find coins and jewelry? Yes.
Do they find gold? No, not yet.

The key to a metal detector is to a) get a machine that finds the kind of targets you seek, and b) practice, practice, practice. If you don't understand what the machine is telling you, you will miss a lot of targets. The only way to really learn your machine is to use it a lot.



I noticed some detectors sell for around $10,000!
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Quote from: Valerie.Val on Yesterday at 05:15:10 AMHunting for gold! Sounds like a fun activity. 💰

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ChrissyRyan

Some detector machines come with optional "heads."

I will likely get an old one.  I wonder if those simply beep in your ears and likely have no display screens. 

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The different-sized and shaped coils are for specific purposes. Larger coils allow you to cover more ground with each sweep. Smaller coils are for hunting in confined spaces, like rock crevices.

The cheapest one I had was a Bounty Hunter. It has a display and comes with a medium-sized coil. You can get an optional coil for it for nugget hunting that is round and only about 4 inches in diameter. That concentrates the signal, making it more sensitive.

Machines come in all sizes and weights. If you are serious about trying it, see if there is a metal detector dealer near you. Talk to them about what you want to do: coin shooting, beach hunting, gold nugget prospecting, etc. They can recommend a machine for that purpose.

Many will let you rent a machine for a weekend so you can try it out. If you get one that is too heavy, it will wear you out after a couple of hours. My dad had several back surgeries, and now he can't use his Minelab because of the weight.

The Bounty Hunter 505 is a good machine. I used mine for more than ten years before I upgraded. I had to, because I moved out of state and forgot it in my garage. The Bounty Hunter is great for starting out. It will easily find coins and jewelry, is lightweight, and is cheap. I got mine at Walmart ages ago for $75. I later bought my wife an upgraded version for $150.

The most important thing to remember is that it is a machine. It cannot lie to you. If it beeps, there is a reason. It is up to you to learn what the different beeps and tones mean. That comes with practice.

I had a practice garden in my backyard. I swept the ground and removed all metal from it. Everything. Then I went back and put in various coins: a penny, a dime, a nickel, a quarter, and a half-dollar. I then added a couple of nails of different sizes, a bottle cap, a pull tab, a fishing sinker, and a piece of necklace chain.

Then I would practice by learning what each target sounds like and what the display shows. Some brands include a DVD or video to demonstrate how to use it and practice with it. Over time, you get to where you don't need to look; you know instantly, "Oh, that's a nickel."

Then I moved into Advanced Training. Instead of having every coin lie flat on the ground, I placed them at different depths in the ground and at various angles. Some completely on edge. Sometimes I would lay a nail across a coin to confuse the signal to see if I could pick out what was there.

When I was confident enough, I would go to local parks or roadside picnic areas. Again, let the machine tell you what it is before you dig it up. You will find a lot of trash. Bag it up and take it with you. The valuables pay for your cleanup effort.

I have also done well on beaches, especially swimming holes, campgrounds, schools, and places with parking lots. My dad knows a woman who did well in Walmart parking lots, checking the landscaping stones. Always check local rules and regulations, and if you are on private property (like Walmart), get permission first.
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ChrissyRyan

I have found coins in parking lots, but not with a metal detector.

I wonder if the parking lot cleaning companies that use the big roller brush trucks come up with a lot of coins!

Then again, with more electronic commerce, it could be that finding coins near stores (or anywhere) may be harder nowadays. 

What I do not understand is why I see so much trash in parking lots.  Why do people seem to clean out their cars or dump stuff like used drink cups, straw wrappers, sandwich bags, and flossing sticks, etc. on the lot?  Do they think it is a garbage can?
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Valerie.Val

@ChrissyRyan unfortunately, a lot of people do not care at all about other people, only about themselves. It took me very long to understand and even longer to accept. They throw their trash out and they don't care how the person feels who needs to clean it up. Or if it pollutes the environment. They don't care cause it does not immediately affect them.
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Dad had a detector in the 70s so a basic one, best thing he found was a silver rattle ball probably from a child's teether. Detecting on the common around the house he found lots of cartridges from when the army used the area for practice in 2nd WW.
 We have folks that do clean up of the hedgerows/verges of their own bat, golden arches bags, energy drink cans are the usual. That will be the youth then!
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Quote from: Valerie.Val on Today at 12:23:39 AM@ChrissyRyan unfortunately, a lot of people do not care at all about other people, only about themselves. It took me very long to understand and even longer to accept. They throw their trash out and they don't care how the person feels who needs to clean it up. Or if it pollutes the environment. They don't care cause it does not immediately affect them.
I'm embarrased to say the UK is really bad for littering. You are right, people just do not care. The amount of times I see people chucking McDonalds bags out their car window is discraceful. We used to have a public service campaign with TV adverts and posters everywhere saying "keep Britain Tidy", it would be useful to have something like that again.

The big problem we have now is fly tipping. Councils started to charge trades to deposit trade waste which unsurprisingly has lead to tradesmen either refusing to take away rubbish or them just finding a quiet area and dumping it all. Councils need to allow free waste dumping for trades to dump waste and this would solve the problem but that would be too sensible for them!

Sorry, this is something that really gets on my nerves, I never litter, I'm the sort of person who will spend ages chasing a bit of rubbish that blew out my hand on a windy day!
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Quote from: ChrissyRyan on Yesterday at 11:08:50 PMWhat I do not understand is why I see so much trash in parking lots.  Why do people seem to clean out their cars or dump stuff like used drink cups, straw wrappers, sandwich bags, and flossing sticks, etc. on the lot? 

It is pure 100% laziness. People are too lazy to throw it away in a bin. They are too lazy to return a shopping cart to the corral. Some people are just too lazy to be bothered. It usually shows in other areas of their lives as well. They don't take care of themselves, their property, or their environment. Maybe it is the way they were raised. I don't know. It's sad.
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