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davina61

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March 19, 2026, 04:23:08 AM
We are all different, I just had to get rid of. 
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Sephirah

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March 19, 2026, 05:02:38 PM
Quote from: ChrissyRyan on March 18, 2026, 07:58:53 PMWell I am not supposed to have a penis as a woman.
This works on my mind.  Nice to have it considering the circumstances but then
if used sexually this is very unlike being a woman.

Yeah... I mean everyone is different and feels differently. I mean I can't feel anything down there so... I would have taken a hacksaw to it years ago if I wasn't concerned with the shock and blood loss.

I would be lying if I didn't say that... Chrissy have you talked to your SO about this? About how you feel about yourself? It isn't really her choice whether you take steps to be yourself and it makes me a little bit uneasy that she doesn't want you to have that surgery. If someone said that to me... I think I might be somewhat cautious, that's all I'm saying. If someone is attracted to a part of you that you don't want... are they worth keeping it for?
Natura nihil frustra facit.
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ChrissyRyan

#162
March 19, 2026, 05:32:42 PM
Quote from: Sephirah on March 19, 2026, 05:02:38 PMYeah... I mean everyone is different and feels differently. I mean I can't feel anything down there so... I would have taken a hacksaw to it years ago if I wasn't concerned with the shock and blood loss.

I would be lying if I didn't say that... Chrissy have you talked to your SO about this? About how you feel about yourself? It isn't really her choice whether you take steps to be yourself and it makes me a little bit uneasy that she doesn't want you to have that surgery. If someone said that to me... I think I might be somewhat cautious, that's all I'm saying. If someone is attracted to a part of you that you don't want... are they worth keeping it for?


Yes I have.  We continue to discuss some important issues.  There is a balance to be found.


Always stay cheerful, be polite, kind, and understanding. Accepting yourself as the woman you are is very liberating.  Never underestimate the appreciation and respect of authenticity.  Help connect a person to someone that may be able to help that person.  Be brave, be strong.  A TRUE friend is a treasure.  Relationships are very important, people are important, and the sooner we all realize that the better off the world will be.  Try a little kindness.  Be generous with your time, energy, wisdom, and resources.   Inconvenience yourself to help someone.   I am a brown eyed, brown haired woman. 
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Sephirah

#163
March 19, 2026, 06:05:52 PM
Quote from: ChrissyRyan on March 19, 2026, 05:32:42 PMYes I have.  We continue to discuss some important issues.  There is a balance to be found.




Okay, that's good. Communication is the most important thing. :)
Natura nihil frustra facit.
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ChrissyRyan

#164
March 19, 2026, 10:02:31 PM
Quote from: Sephirah on March 19, 2026, 06:05:52 PMOkay, that's good. Communication is the most important thing. :)


We have some things that need to be given a lot more thought. 



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Emma1017

#165
March 20, 2026, 08:14:46 AM


Chrissy, I am glad that the two of you are talking.  That says a lot about your relationship.
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ChrissyRyan

#166
March 20, 2026, 12:26:14 PM
Hello everyone!

Hugs,


Chrissy
Always stay cheerful, be polite, kind, and understanding. Accepting yourself as the woman you are is very liberating.  Never underestimate the appreciation and respect of authenticity.  Help connect a person to someone that may be able to help that person.  Be brave, be strong.  A TRUE friend is a treasure.  Relationships are very important, people are important, and the sooner we all realize that the better off the world will be.  Try a little kindness.  Be generous with your time, energy, wisdom, and resources.   Inconvenience yourself to help someone.   I am a brown eyed, brown haired woman. 
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ChrissyRyan

#167
March 20, 2026, 12:31:37 PM
I am sad yet happy.


Sounds impossible.

Always stay cheerful, be polite, kind, and understanding. Accepting yourself as the woman you are is very liberating.  Never underestimate the appreciation and respect of authenticity.  Help connect a person to someone that may be able to help that person.  Be brave, be strong.  A TRUE friend is a treasure.  Relationships are very important, people are important, and the sooner we all realize that the better off the world will be.  Try a little kindness.  Be generous with your time, energy, wisdom, and resources.   Inconvenience yourself to help someone.   I am a brown eyed, brown haired woman. 

Charlotte Kitty ✅

#168
March 20, 2026, 12:38:56 PM
Quote from: ChrissyRyan on March 20, 2026, 12:31:37 PMI am sad yet happy.


Sounds impossible.



I know how fond you are of your sweetie by how you talk about her. I certainly know that is something you wouldn't want to lose and would be very sad to. But you and your feelings are important too. You're a lovely, kind and sweet woman who deserves to live your best life.

I hope that given time she comes around and fully accepts you. Seems you're having the right conversations now and should probably continue to. Also your desires about GRS that I feel might be something you want, need more exploration.

Wishing you lots of love and hugs through this.

Charlotte 😻

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Pema

#169
March 20, 2026, 12:57:11 PM
Quote from: ChrissyRyan on March 20, 2026, 12:31:37 PMI am sad yet happy.


Sounds impossible.



We were misled to believe that these are mutually exclusive emotions. They absolutely aren't. That you are able to feel them both together shows that you are open to experiencing your truth.
"Though we travel the world over to find the beautiful, we must carry it with us or we find it not."
 - Ralph Waldo Emerson

"If you evade suffering you also evade the chance of joy. Pleasure you may get, or pleasures, but you will not be fulfilled. You will not know what it is to come home."
 - Ursula K. Le Guin
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Lori Dee ✅

#170
March 20, 2026, 01:14:29 PM
Happy Spring, Chrissy!

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Sephirah

#171
March 20, 2026, 04:32:07 PM
I just want to give you a giant hug, Chrissy. You spend so much of your time trying to make other people happy and feel better. You deserve some for yourself, sweetie. Even the warmth of the brightest fire needs stoking. :)

Ambivalence is a weird thing. Being able to experience two opposite emotions at the same time.

You deserve to be happy. And... I think whatever that means to you is what it means. No matter what or how anyone else feels. It's a choice you get to make.

I will say... wherever your life takes you... honey, you will be no less you. When you spoke about not "supposed to" have a penis as a woman. A lot of people aren't supposed to have, be, or do a lot of things... but they do. What matters most is how you feel. Not what you think you should or shouldn't do, or be, okay? If you're in that place, you're in that place. If you're not, then you're not. There is no judgement or anything either way, okay? What matters most is that your life makes you feel like it's worth living. Whatever that takes, and with whoever.

So... focus on that, Chrissy. On being in a place where you're okay. Okay? That matters most.

*extra hugs*
Natura nihil frustra facit.

ChrissyRyan

#172
March 20, 2026, 04:35:33 PM
Lauren,


Okay, and thank you.



Chrissy
Always stay cheerful, be polite, kind, and understanding. Accepting yourself as the woman you are is very liberating.  Never underestimate the appreciation and respect of authenticity.  Help connect a person to someone that may be able to help that person.  Be brave, be strong.  A TRUE friend is a treasure.  Relationships are very important, people are important, and the sooner we all realize that the better off the world will be.  Try a little kindness.  Be generous with your time, energy, wisdom, and resources.   Inconvenience yourself to help someone.   I am a brown eyed, brown haired woman. 
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ChrissyRyan

#173
March 21, 2026, 10:41:15 AM
I have a lot of house chores to do today.  I should mop, do the laundry, shop for mustard and maybe some fresh vegetables, and go through some postal mail.  Then maybe do a bunch of other things I should be doing.  Oh, and watch basketball games.  I had a surprise visitor over but she left about 30 minutes ago so I guess I had better start on these things.

I will try to post but I really do not have much of anything interesting to post like Jess and Lori and others do, such as Lauren.  I better stop mentioning names as someone may not like it that I did not mention their name.  Y'all have some interesting tidbits.  I am glad we do not have to limit just talking about trans topics.  I would be repeating my words a lot probably and bore.

See ya later.


Chrissy
Always stay cheerful, be polite, kind, and understanding. Accepting yourself as the woman you are is very liberating.  Never underestimate the appreciation and respect of authenticity.  Help connect a person to someone that may be able to help that person.  Be brave, be strong.  A TRUE friend is a treasure.  Relationships are very important, people are important, and the sooner we all realize that the better off the world will be.  Try a little kindness.  Be generous with your time, energy, wisdom, and resources.   Inconvenience yourself to help someone.   I am a brown eyed, brown haired woman. 

Lori Dee ✅

#174
March 21, 2026, 01:54:16 PM
You are always a ray of sunshine, Chrissy. Never doubt your contributions here. Not everything is about hobbies, or shopping, or food. You are what this site represents:
Positive thinking, acceptance, and support.

You dish that out in generous helpings. Never stop. We love you for who you are, not what you post (but that helps us see who you are).

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#175
March 21, 2026, 01:59:52 PM
Quote from: ChrissyRyanI will try to post but I really do not have much of anything interesting to post like Jess and Lori and others do, such as Lauren.  I better stop mentioning names as someone may not like it that I did not mention their name.  Y'all have some interesting tidbits.  I am glad we do not have to limit just talking about trans topics.  I would be repeating my words a lot probably and bore.

See ya later.

Chrissy

Chrissy, Your posts are full of love and kindness.  They are enjoyed by me and I'm sure countless others. You have also pulled me out of the dark a few times now. I thank you for this and all your contributions.  You keep us running with lots of interesting content.

Charlotte xx
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Emma1017

#176
March 22, 2026, 09:32:58 AM


Chrissy, you are like sunshine even when you feel cloudy!  This is your blog, blog away and we are always here for you.

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Stottie Girl

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March 22, 2026, 10:37:49 AM
Don't be daft Chrissy. Post away, no matter how mundane you think the subject is you never know where they will lead. Who would have thought a post about mustard or toad in the hole would have generated so much interest and banter!

Keep it up, Chrissy!

Sarah xx
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ChrissyRyan

#178
March 22, 2026, 12:38:48 PM
Quote from: ChrissyRyan on March 21, 2026, 10:41:15 AMI have a lot of house chores to do today.  I should mop, do the laundry, shop for mustard and maybe some fresh vegetables, and go through some postal mail.  Then maybe do a bunch of other things I should be doing.  Oh, and watch basketball games.  I had a surprise visitor over but she left about 30 minutes ago so I guess I had better start on these things.

I will try to post but I really do not have much of anything interesting to post like Jess and Lori and others do, such as Lauren.  I better stop mentioning names as someone may not like it that I did not mention their name.  Y'all have some interesting tidbits.  I am glad we do not have to limit just talking about trans topics.  I would be repeating my words a lot probably and bore.

See ya later.


Chrissy

I did get everything done yesterday except to go through my postal mail.  So chores wise, it was a good day.  The day started out great.   I did not find the English mustard locally but I only looked at the super.

More basketball tournament games are on my schedule today. 


Chrissy
Always stay cheerful, be polite, kind, and understanding. Accepting yourself as the woman you are is very liberating.  Never underestimate the appreciation and respect of authenticity.  Help connect a person to someone that may be able to help that person.  Be brave, be strong.  A TRUE friend is a treasure.  Relationships are very important, people are important, and the sooner we all realize that the better off the world will be.  Try a little kindness.  Be generous with your time, energy, wisdom, and resources.   Inconvenience yourself to help someone.   I am a brown eyed, brown haired woman. 

ChrissyRyan

#179
March 23, 2026, 01:42:30 PM
I was almost in tears of happiness this morning.  I was just sitting down and thinking how grateful that I can be me at work and not effectively being pushed out of a job and feeling unwelcome.  I am valued as an employee here.

Sure more often than not I do not have a consistently pretty female voice and that may be so incongruent with looking like an average looking woman (it would be worse if I were beautiful I suppose).  So am I saying I am glad to just look plain?  I guess so!  Wow, I have high beauty standards huh?

I am grateful that I can work and contribute here and I do not have to hide my womanhood in any way to anyone here. 

Chrissy




Always stay cheerful, be polite, kind, and understanding. Accepting yourself as the woman you are is very liberating.  Never underestimate the appreciation and respect of authenticity.  Help connect a person to someone that may be able to help that person.  Be brave, be strong.  A TRUE friend is a treasure.  Relationships are very important, people are important, and the sooner we all realize that the better off the world will be.  Try a little kindness.  Be generous with your time, energy, wisdom, and resources.   Inconvenience yourself to help someone.   I am a brown eyed, brown haired woman. 
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