Charlotte's scratch post

[Charlotte Kitty ✅]

I've ordered the peel off lip tint product I've been recommended. Hopefully will give me a lift but without the difficulties of lipstick. I'm after impact with minimal effort and downsides. I'll update when I try it!

My head is still numb like pins and needles. This can last a few months so not unexpected. I still tape my nose every night as this reduces risk of getting build up of skin causing a lump at the front. It can be beneficial to do this a few months. I'm much happier with what I see in the mirror now so that's one issue resolved for me at least.

I can't wait until my hair gets longer as that will really help me I think. Also i can try to style it more. Struggle a bit with it being shorter.

Charlotte 😻

[Dances With Trees]

I am so glad your recovery is going so well!

You are beautiful.

[Charlotte Kitty ✅]

I am so glad your recovery is going so well!

You are beautiful.

Thank youuu and same back to you...also beautiful.

Sending lots of love and hugs x

[Charlotte Kitty ✅]

I have firmed up my GRS surgeon now and they are now sorting out my plan for February. Totally excited about getting the right bits next year now.

I'm sure it'll be very uncomfortable for the first days, but at least I know I can handle this kinda stuff now.

Charlotte 😻

[davina61]

I hope it goes as well as my op did, didn't need any pain meds . Okay you wont be doing the can can for a bit but I managed the stairs okay when I got home.

[Courtney G]

I have a similar numbness - the front top of my head is numb for a few inches behind the forehead incision. It feels weird and disconcerting. But it does get a little better every day.

[Charlotte Kitty ✅]

I hope it goes as well as my op did, didn't need any pain meds . Okay you wont be doing the can can for a bit but I managed the stairs okay when I got home.

I'll be very happy it I don't have pain and can move freely like you did after yours. The stay in hospital is 6 nights for me, then 2 weeks in a hotel. I think I'm most worried about being catheterized. After my FFS I wanted it straight out. But for GRS will be in a few days and feels weird. And using the loo after stings so bad! I've paid for exit seats on plane home so lots of legroom.

But worth the discomfort for the outcome.

Charlotte 😻

[Pema]

Charlotte, I'm sorry I haven't been around more to acknowledge your posts. Spring is fully springing here, and the garden is trying to outrun me. But I'm gaining on it!

I just want to tell you that I see you both wrestling with your demons while also loving yourself as best you can and continuing to steer your life in the direction you want to go. And I know that's not easy. *But you're doing it*, and I admire that deeply.

Your fan,
Pema

[Charlotte Kitty ✅]

Charlotte, I'm sorry I haven't been around more to acknowledge your posts. Spring is fully springing here, and the garden is trying to outrun me. But I'm gaining on it!

I just want to tell you that I see you both wrestling with your demons while also loving yourself as best you can and continuing to steer your life in the direction you want to go. And I know that's not easy. *But you're doing it*, and I admire that deeply.

Your fan,
Pema

Thank you so much Pema and totally get it. Spring is such a beautiful season with everything springing to life, luscious and green. It's my favorite time of year, as it invokes hope and growth. Seeing everything spring up after rain, followed by the sun is the finest experience.

Getting there day by day. Monday was a big step with the therapist clearly agreeing my case is far too complex for the normal councelling service. And then recommending psychiatric support. Of course I'll keep updating here with everything both good and bad!

And wow...I have a fan 😊

Charlotte 😻

[Lori Dee ✅]

I agree with Pema.

What you have been through, and yet you continue to push forward, is the very definition of courage!

Keep being you. You are a very inspiring woman.

Hugs!

[Dawn Kellie]

I'm proud of you so much to go through and you persist. You are a true warrior woman. Keep it up we are behind you

[Charlotte Kitty ✅]

Swelling on the side of my head has got bigger with a pocket with some fluid in it. Tender to the touch but doesn't hurt generally. The feel of it makes me cringe though and feel nauseous!

Really tired as they closed the main carriageway to my work for 11 days due to HS2 works. Getting up at 5.30 to set off early and miss the traffic. Way home though is now taking an hour so twice as long as my normal commute. Don't think that's helping as the swelling is worse after my day at work. Oh well at least it's Easter soon and I can stay in bed until lunch time a few days.

Charlotte 😻

[Lori Dee ✅]

Swelling on the side of my head has got bigger with a pocket with some fluid in it. Tender to the touch but doesn't hurt generally. The feel of it makes me cringe though and feel nauseous!

Have you checked in with the surgeon about it?

I wouldn't just wait and see. It doesn't hurt to ask. If they think it is serious, get to an ER. You don't want to take chances with your brain-bucket. Seriously. Call them.

[Charlotte Kitty ✅]

Have you checked in with the surgeon about it?

I wouldn't just wait and see. It doesn't hurt to ask. If they think it is serious, get to an ER. You don't want to take chances with your brain-bucket. Seriously. Call them.

Nah as it's not hot so don't think it's infected. I'll see if it goes down in a few days or so. Not worried  it's just annoying! Apparently this can happen for months after.

Charlotte 😻

[Stottie Girl]

Nah as it's not hot so don't think it's infected. I'll see if it goes down in a few days or so. Not worried  it's just annoying! Apparently this can happen for months after.

Charlotte 😻

Maybe show your GP then Charlotte? or call NHS direct and see what they say?

[Lori Dee ✅]

Nah as it's not hot so don't think it's infected. I'll see if it goes down in a few days or so. Not worried  it's just annoying! Apparently this can happen for months after.

Charlotte 😻

OK. I wasn't concerned with infection so much as fluid buildup that might need to be drained.

[Charlotte Kitty ✅]

If it needs to be drained I'll have to arrange that privately as the NHS won't touch private work unless it's life threatening e.g. infection. I know some places to do it if need be.

Charlotte 😻

[Pema]

I'd be having someone take a look at that as soon as I could. Please don't wait for it to become urgent.

[Charlotte Kitty ✅]

I've got so much cuteness in my wardrobe and these I've not even worn out yet. Next furry meet maybe if warm enough. I just need a way to get better pictures. I love fashion and need to find a way to show it off better.

My home lighting is for mood not photos. And my rooms are tiny and cluttered. Maybe need to do outdoors.

[Northern Star Girl ✅]

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Charlotte:
Definitely a cute outfit for your next outing or furry meeting.
Danielle