Charlotte's scratch post

[Charlotte Kitty ✅]

I'm experimenting using a higher more feminine voice in my daily life - its probably more androgynous as not venturing into the higher resisters. But the thing I find is I can sustain it until I need to discuss something complex - at that point I cant multitask thinking about both the subject of my conversation and controlling my voice at the same time. Anyone that's succeeded in voice feminisation, do you find that this just comes the more you do it? Is there capacity to start using your femme voice early on the daily, even if not fully refined? I'm thinking that progress can be made by just using in daily life and improving incrementally.

Charlotte

[Jessica_Rose ✅]

I had the same issue. If I initiated conversations I was OK, but it was a different story when I had to respond to an unexpected question. For me, it was just a matter of time. Continue practicing. Continue using your 'new' voice. It will slowly improve. Eventually it will become your 'default' voice, and conversation will become much easier. It may take several months, but it will happen. I've often thought that if transition were easy, everyone would do it!

Love always -- Jessica Rose

[Charlotte Kitty ✅]

I had the same issue. If I initiated conversations I was OK, but it was a different story when I had to respond to an unexpected question. For me, it was just a matter of time. Continue practicing. Continue using your 'new' voice. It will slowly improve. Eventually it will become your 'default' voice, and conversation will become much easier. It may take several months, but it will happen. I've often thought that if transition were easy, everyone would do it!

Love always -- Jessica Rose

Well I'm trying when I can. My colleagues probably think I'm going crazy as I'm randomly changing my voice.

[Courtney G]

Same for me, too. I start out with a higher, more fem voice and once I have to think a little more or I'm more emotionally involved, my voice drops.

[Charlotte Kitty ✅]

Honestly I'm finding HRT so frustrating to be honest! Taking my meds each day and the cost of them and literally nothing has happened for 7 months now. Feels like I might as well take blockers to keep hair growth lower and leave it at that the very little the E seems to be doing.

[davina61]

You think its doing nothing but it will be doing stuff just shuttle little things.