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Dawn Kellie

#600
May 21, 2026, 05:38:56 PM
I made an appointment with my wife for Saturday, with no phones. Let's see if I'm woman enough to reveal Kellie
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Stottie Girl

#601
May 21, 2026, 06:04:03 PM
Quote from: Dawn Kellie on May 21, 2026, 11:55:23 AMI just had a great therapy session. We determined that I'm going to have to schedule an appointment with my wife to have a discussion with my wife. A little background over the last 7 days anytime I've tried to talk with my wife she has had a work issue to deal with. Then the day I was having chest pain and a complete headache when I got home there was home drama. I couldn't even tell my wife I was having chest pains. A couple days before that my wife called and was frantic with me over an issue with work. I barely had time to say 2 words. My therapist is worried it's going to cause resentment between us. I don't want ti agree with her.
She was also telling me that this depressive funk isn't just me. She has had several friends and clients tell her the same thing. 
I feel I'm coming back to myself. Sorry, you'll be seeing more of me again
I like that final line Kellie! You have been in a noticible funk for a while now.

You really must tell your wife if you are having chest pains again Kellie. You can't ignore things like that, she will have to make time for it.

Have you considered the reason she is so busy everytime you are trying to talk about this stuff is she already suspects what it is about and is trying to put off the conversation? Fixing an appointment sounds like a good idea too. It is more difficult to walk away from it.

I don't know if I'm giving you good advice, I'm just guessing about this stuff really. I hope someone else on here who has experience of this can offer their advice.
A wise man once said don't judge a man until you've walked a mile in his shoes, that way when you judge him you're a mile away and you have his shoes!

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Dawn Kellie

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May 21, 2026, 07:18:30 PM
@Stottie Girl
I'm sure she knows something. She is the smartest person I know. I hope it's because she has a demanding profession and not avoiding what i have to say

ChrissyRyan

#603
May 21, 2026, 08:05:27 PM
Pick a good time, relax, help make her comfortable, and talk and talk and talk.  Listen too.

Always stay cheerful, be polite, kind, and understanding. Accepting yourself as the woman you are is very liberating.  Never underestimate the appreciation and respect of authenticity.  Help connect a person to someone that may be able to help that person.  Be brave, be strong.  A TRUE friend is a treasure.  Relationships are very important, people are important, and the sooner we all realize that the better off the world will be.  Try a little kindness.  Be generous with your time, energy, wisdom, and resources.   Inconvenience yourself to help someone.   I am a brown eyed, brown haired woman. 
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Dawn Kellie

#604
May 21, 2026, 08:10:25 PM
I just have to get it out into the universe. Keeping secrets from my wife is causing me serious stress

Dawn Kellie

#605
May 24, 2026, 05:46:55 AM
Well I did it.

 I had the conversation with my wife. She reacted well she had lots of questions. I answered to the best of my ability. She has some concerns, the biggest is me leaving her for a man. I tried to explain to her that is not what I want. That will be an on going conversation. I feel so much better not having this secre. I will be constantly work on her concerns and showing her I still and will continue to love her

ChrissyRyan

#606
May 24, 2026, 06:06:16 AM
It was good to talk with her about this.  It is interesting that there was a sexuality connection possibility in her mind, as there is often in people's minds of sexuality and gender being synonymous or at least unavoidably intertwined.  Well, it can be intertwined but not necessarily in ways that many may make assumptions.

Have a nice Sunday!


Always stay cheerful, be polite, kind, and understanding. Accepting yourself as the woman you are is very liberating.  Never underestimate the appreciation and respect of authenticity.  Help connect a person to someone that may be able to help that person.  Be brave, be strong.  A TRUE friend is a treasure.  Relationships are very important, people are important, and the sooner we all realize that the better off the world will be.  Try a little kindness.  Be generous with your time, energy, wisdom, and resources.   Inconvenience yourself to help someone.   I am a brown eyed, brown haired woman. 
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Dawn Kellie

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May 24, 2026, 06:07:49 AM
Quote from: ChrissyRyan on May 24, 2026, 06:06:16 AMIt was good to talk with her about this.  It is interesting that there was a sexuality connection possibility in her mind, as there is often in people's minds of sexuality and gender being synonymous or at least unavoidably intertwined.  Well, it can be intertwined but not necessarily in ways that many may make assumptions.

Have a nice Sunday!




Unfortunately it's a work day. It will only be so good
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tgirlamg

#608
May 24, 2026, 07:23:17 PM
Well Done Kellie!!!

Congrats on this amazing and courageous step forward towards a life that will serve you far better!!! 🌻🤗🌻

Onward Brave Sister!

Ashley 💕
"To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment" ... Ralph Waldo Emerson 🌸

"The individual has always had to struggle from being overwhelmed by the tribe... But, no price is too high for the privilege of owning yourself" ... Rudyard Kipling 🌸

Let go of the things that no longer serve you... Let go of the pretense of the false persona, it is not you... Let go of the armor that you have worn for a lifetime, to serve the expectations of others and, to protect the woman inside... She needs protection no longer.... She is tired of hiding and more courageous than you know... Let her prove that to you....Let her step out of the dark and feel the light upon her face.... amg🌸

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Gina P

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May 25, 2026, 07:30:19 AM
   Congratulations Kellie. It must feel like a huge weight has been lifted. That took a lot of courage. I always wonder why so many think being trans is just an extension of being gay. "So you like men now?" My therapist said look at it this way, same person, just version 2.0. A little research reveals that there are two parts of the brain. One controls gender identity. Another sexual preference. Anyway, that was a huge step you took. Well done. 
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davina61

#610
May 25, 2026, 08:33:24 AM
Yes my dear, thats right Gina as I find men do nothing for me.
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Pema

#611
Today at 01:29:42 PM
Uh oh. I lost track of time and thought Kellie's conversation with her wife was yesterday, but it was a week ago. I came to see how it went, and now it looks like Kellie is gone from the site.

Does anyone know what happened? It looks like the conversation went pretty well.
"Though we travel the world over to find the beautiful, we must carry it with us or we find it not."
 - Ralph Waldo Emerson

"If you evade suffering you also evade the chance of joy. Pleasure you may get, or pleasures, but you will not be fulfilled. You will not know what it is to come home."
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Charlotte Kitty ✅

#612
Today at 03:09:17 PM
This sounds like sad news. I've been out the loop for a bit, but its very quiet without Kellie around. I hope that she is OK.
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Stottie Girl

#613
Today at 03:30:57 PM
I think she may have deleted her profile actually. I know that she did indeed tell her wife, it seemed to go OK, then she went dark. I guess this stuff happens from time to time. If she has gone, she will be a loss. She lit up these pages and her enthusiasm was amazing. I wish her all the very best and hope she can resolve her issues.
A wise man once said don't judge a man until you've walked a mile in his shoes, that way when you judge him you're a mile away and you have his shoes!

Never trust a man who, when left alone in a room with a tea cozy, doesn't try it on - Billy Connolley

tgirlamg

#614
Today at 03:34:14 PM
I hope you are well Kellie!... We all do!!!... Come back in days to come if doing so serves you!!! We will be here! 🌻

Hugs!

Ashley 💕
"To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment" ... Ralph Waldo Emerson 🌸

"The individual has always had to struggle from being overwhelmed by the tribe... But, no price is too high for the privilege of owning yourself" ... Rudyard Kipling 🌸

Let go of the things that no longer serve you... Let go of the pretense of the false persona, it is not you... Let go of the armor that you have worn for a lifetime, to serve the expectations of others and, to protect the woman inside... She needs protection no longer.... She is tired of hiding and more courageous than you know... Let her prove that to you....Let her step out of the dark and feel the light upon her face.... amg🌸

Ashley's Corner: https://www.susans.org/index.php/topic,247549.0.html 🌻
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Charlotte Kitty ✅

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Today at 03:54:50 PM
I wanna cry 😢. She was so sweet and beautiful.
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Valerie.Val

#616
Today at 04:03:59 PM
Oh no.
Dear Kellie if you read this I really hope you are okay.

Much love 💜
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