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Started by Dawn Kellie, February 07, 2026, 12:54:57 PM

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Charlotte Kitty

You've come so far since January Kellie. And at this point you're definitely on a roll. Glad to hear your therapy went well and especially that your therapist is prepared to work with you and navigate the system carefully.

Hope it all goes well tomorrow. I'm sure you'll all have a great day.

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I feel like the intersection of dark and light. I have a dark soul residing in me but an intense draw to the powers of good. All around I feel the constant battle between darkness and light.

Dawn Kellie

I'm looking forward to tomorrow. I think we will have a good day
D. KELLIE Kn.

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Stottie Girl

Quote from: Dawn Kellie on April 28, 2026, 03:32:31 PMI'm looking forward to tomorrow. I think we will have a good day
Yes, that really does sound like a fun day out for you. You'll have to tell us all about it when you get back. Not a fan of shopping myself but I would like to be a "lady who does lunch" some time or maybe go with friends to get nails or other treatments done.
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Snowangel500

I would like to say that is a horrid photo of me! The low angle is so bad!!!😂 I promise I'm much prettier than that! Mad add the photo I sent you! It's an approved one 🤣❤️
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Dawn Kellie



Here is an approved photo
D. KELLIE Kn.

It's harder to love and create than hate and destroy. Love and creation takes more energy. Where hate and destruction can be done with a single word that can haunt you for a life time.

Stottie Girl

Oooooh Kellie! you could be in trouble here!

Both pics are fine Snow you look great in both! love the nails!
A wise man once said don't judge a man until you've walked a mile in his shoes, that way when you judge him you're a mile away and you have his shoes!

Never trust a man who, when left alone in a room with a tea cozy, doesn't try it on - Billy Connolley

Dawn Kellie

Quote from: Stottie Girl on April 28, 2026, 06:16:33 PMOooooh Kellie! you could be in trouble here!

Both pics are fine Snow you look great in both! love the nails!

Hers or mine?
I live in trouble, I seem to be good at it.
D. KELLIE Kn.

It's harder to love and create than hate and destroy. Love and creation takes more energy. Where hate and destruction can be done with a single word that can haunt you for a life time.

Lori Dee

All of my care is through the VA. Since they revoked Gender Affirming Care and banned all flags, pins, posters, and other signs saying they will support us, our true allies have had to work within the system.

So, even though your therapist may not be able to put it in your records and bill it with that diagnosis code, they can write a letter and give it to you without putting it in your records. That gives you a written diagnosis that can be used to start HRT with a medical provider, even if they are out of state, and to use a mail-order pharmacy.

Just an idea to keep in your back pocket in case you need it.

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Dawn Kellie

Had a day with my girls. Haf breakfast, did some retail therapy. Answered some questions for my oldest daughter. She didn't respond as well as I hoped, but it wasn't horrible either.  She was concerned about how my granddaughters are going to handle this. She also brought up my wife's work. I had already thought about my wife's work.
I still have my wife to tell. I think it is coming up
D. KELLIE Kn.

It's harder to love and create than hate and destroy. Love and creation takes more energy. Where hate and destruction can be done with a single word that can haunt you for a life time.

Lori Dee

It's wonderful that you are able to discuss this with them. They don't have to agree with everything. The questions they ask and the concerns they have will be issues you will need to account for. As you said, you are already working on some of those. Just keep the lines of communication open and honest, and you can get through it.
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Dawn Kellie

It wasn't like she shunned me. I just got
home from sitting with my girls and watching a movie.
I realize this is alot to absorb and she worries about everything. She always has and since having two babies it's only intensified.  She can be such a mother hen. I do know she does it out of love. I was just hoping for a little more joy. It will take time
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Charlotte Kitty

Sounds like your oldest just needs time to process everything. Often the reactions of others are feared yet often end up the most accepting and understanding.

Charlotte 😻
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I feel like the intersection of dark and light. I have a dark soul residing in me but an intense draw to the powers of good. All around I feel the constant battle between darkness and light.

tgirlamg

Well Done Kellie!...

Family members often need a bit of time to ruminate on things... we are asking them to remake long held views of who we are and see us in new ways... time, patience, understanding, honesty and communication are our friends during this time!... Keep doin' whatcha' doin' girl!... All
shall be well 🌻

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"The individual has always had to struggle from being overwhelmed by the tribe... But, no price is too high for the privilege of owning yourself" ... Rudyard Kipling 🌸

Let go of the things that no longer serve you... Let go of the pretense of the false persona, it is not you... Let go of the armor that you have worn for a lifetime, to serve the expectations of others and, to protect the woman inside... She needs protection no longer.... She is tired of hiding and more courageous than you know... Let her prove that to you....Let her step out of the dark and feel the light upon her face.... amg🌸

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Dawn Kellie

Another work day. This is my long week, 3- 12 hour days. As a younger person I could do 12 hour days for weeks at a time. Now not so much. It also sucks I'm pretty much in boy mode for 3 days in a row.
Just feeling a little off. Being in boy mode brings me down.
Hair is getting longer. I'm going to have to go and get it trimmed up some. It's starting to get real uneven
D. KELLIE Kn.

It's harder to love and create than hate and destroy. Love and creation takes more energy. Where hate and destruction can be done with a single word that can haunt you for a life time.

Charlotte Kitty

Hope that these shifts pass quickly as sounds rough being in boymode so long. Will be great when your hair gets longer and hopefully you can keep growing it without any issues. Look forward to a time when you can be yourself always.

Charlotte X
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Lover of fashion and cute stuff!
Kawaii, Hello Kitty, Care bears 🐻
Agender/Genderqueer/Demonkin.

I feel like the intersection of dark and light. I have a dark soul residing in me but an intense draw to the powers of good. All around I feel the constant battle between darkness and light.

Dawn Kellie

I hope so. After yesterday with my daughter it was a bit frustrating. 
I know it will be fine, just expected a different response
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