OK Danielle, I do get that we should not use the term itself in our own words and I can see what you mean but are you saying we have to censor our own messages when recounting something that was said to us? Sometimes the context is necessary surely?
However, I seem to be in a minority here. Far be it from me to go against policy. I just didn't see a problem with what
@Tills had written and would not have even if she had reported more derogatory language had been used. I guess maybe it's a culture thing, I wouldn't want to offend anyone.