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Started by Devlyn, Yesterday at 09:29:58 AM

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Tills

Quote from: Paulie on Today at 02:28:38 AMWell Tills, that's quite the image you concurred up in my head.  It made me smile.

Hi Paulie,

It really was one of the funniest and, I have to say, best days of my life. I was out in Bangkok with a male friend who has known me since we were at primary school together. Nothing sexual between us I hasten to add.

Basically I went as me i.e. female and it was a mixed bar so there were girls and kathoey. They beckoned me up on stage and I thought 'why not?' which is a very Thai expression.

They offered me a full-time job at the end of the evening!!

My friend still laughs about that evening. Says it was the best night out he's had in Bangkok.

A fun and funny memory.

But to keep this on topic, that was then and this is now. I can't recapture that and I'm beginning to think I shouldn't try.
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Devlyn

I am absolutely fine with thread drift in this topic, so feel free to pursue any discussions that come up. 🙂

Hugs, Devlyn

Stottie Girl

Quote from: Tills on Today at 12:37:22 AMIs the real issue here not really to do with hormones, or trans this or that, as such but to do with how we all deal with advancing age and ... death? I know I certainly felt differently once I'd passed 60. The days of dancing on stage in a Bangkok bar dressed only in a mini skirt, blouse, and high heels feel like another era whereas in reality it was just ten years ago.

The one certainty of life is death. Atrophy is universal. There's something quite important, to me, in recognising that as the years pass so the goals of being female alter. A healthy maintenance level feels like a good focus.

But maybe I'm wrong?

xx


Wow Tills, you little minx! 10 years ago? I'm 50, I'm booking a flight to Bangkok, there's a dancefloor with my name on it! ha ha!
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Well I will be 71 soon and still on 2x 100ml patches twice a week, not bothered getting levels checked lately as they were on the low side anyway. Chest hair has almost gone, face hair is slowed down so I will keep taking the treatment.
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Quote from: Stottie Girl on Today at 03:55:36 AMWow Tills, you little minx! 10 years ago? I'm 50, I'm booking a flight to Bangkok, there's a dancefloor with my name on it! ha ha!

Haha!! 😀

Probably helped that I'd had a couple of drinks in the days when I did.

Have you been to Thailand before? It's a place for a lot of fun to be sure.

I remember another occasion before I transitioned when I was meeting up with another old school friend, a pilot who was overnighting in Bangkok. We met up at a bar for a chat and something to eat. But there were a lot of kathoey around and they asked me if I'd like to be made up by them. I must have been giving off a vibe! So I said 'you bet' and they spent about an hour making me up, which was such a lot of fun. They weren't after money, they were just enjoying it. My poor pilot friend just sat there with his face in his hands 😂

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Stottie Girl

No, never been to Thailand it definitely does interest me but I don't do well with humidity which kind of puts me off and there are other destinations further up the pecking order. I like the colder destinations normally but there are exceptions on my list. I definitely want to make it to Japan, Australia and New Zealand some day.

My parents nearly emigrated to Hong Kong when I was a baby (turned down the job at the last minute) so I've always had a desire to go there so I can see what my life might have been! The handover of the territory ceremony is etched into my brain for some reason.

Could fancy a free makeover mind! Sounds like a perfect evening to me!
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Tess100

Thanks to all for bringing up the hormone levels topic again as it's a question for me right now too.  I had the conversation with my GP at my annual exam and left more confused than when I walked in.
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Devlyn

I'm not offering this as fact or fear mongering, but in the NHS link I put up above it mentioned that exposure to estrogens may increase the risk of breast cancer.

Imagine if the HRT gave you growth, then took it away. 😥 Just playing Devyl's advocate here.

Thanks again to everyone for joining the discussion. 🙂

Hugs, Devlyn

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ChrissyRyan

Some days I wish I had larger breasts.  However, if they are big enough to fill up someone's hand, that may be large enough. 

I am doubtful HRT will ever do much to widen my hips.

However I do think HRT helped my breasts grow.

I will always leave it to the medical doctors to manage my dosage just right for me.


Chrissy

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My endo has reduced my prescription due to my family history of strokes. She said this is standard even for CIS females in my age group. I am 72.

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Quote from: Stottie Girl on Today at 08:18:18 AMNo, never been to Thailand it definitely does interest me but I don't do well with humidity which kind of puts me off and there are other destinations further up the pecking order. I like the colder destinations normally but there are exceptions on my list. I definitely want to make it to Japan, Australia and New Zealand some day.

My parents nearly emigrated to Hong Kong when I was a baby (turned down the job at the last minute) so I've always had a desire to go there so I can see what my life might have been! The handover of the territory ceremony is etched into my brain for some reason.

Could fancy a free makeover mind! Sounds like a perfect evening to me!


Well taking @Devlyn at her word about drifting off topic, I have also come to dislike the humidity. How I lived in a rainforest on the equator for 6 years without electricity astonishes me now, but I did.

Thailand, especially further north, is neither humid nor too hot in December, January, and February. In fact Chiang Mai and the far north is positively chilly in the mornings during December/January.

But I hear you. I loved New Zealand. Maybe a bit hyped but still gorgeous. I was lucky to fly in a small plane to Milford Sound on a gin clear day and then cruise on the sound before any other tourists arrived. I saw seals, penguins, and dolphins. A mesmerisingly beautiful place. Whether it was any more beautiful than Norway I'm not convinced, or the Canadian Rockies for that matter (Lake Louise is also spellbindingly beautiful). I took trains and boats throughout Norway and went right up into the Arctic Circle, staying on the Lofoten Islands. The northern lights danced every night I was there and it was probably the most beautiful place I've ever been in my life.

Which brings me back on topic (no, really) because 15 months ago before my brother's sudden death I went on a round-the-world trip: London-Singapore-Australia-New Zealand-Fiji-Canada-Iceland-London. I kind of knew at the time that it might be my swansong to long haul and global travel. At the age of 60 after a lifetime of world travel, it felt like the right time to rein it in and alter the way I travel. Hence the Western Scottish Highlands which would also be in my top 5 most beautiful places I've been.

How is that back on topic? Just because I guess I'm feeling that I'd also now prefer to settle into a maintenance level of estradiol, rather than a so-called therapeutic level. Into my 60's and it just feels right for me. But that's me and others have differing perspectives on this :)

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Stottie Girl

OK, I'm officially jealous of your jet setting lifestyle Tills! The stories you must have.

I love the sound of your Norway trip. Norway is in my top 5 to visit in the future alongside Iceland (not the frozen food place!).
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ChrissyRyan

I would like to see the fjords of Norway.

Always stay cheerful, be polite, kind, and understanding. Accepting yourself as the woman you are is very liberating.  Never underestimate the appreciation and respect of authenticity.  Help connect a person to someone that may be able to help that person.  Be brave, be strong.  A TRUE friend is a treasure.  Relationships are very important, people are important, and the sooner we all realize that the better off the world will be.  Try a little kindness.  Be generous with your time, energy, wisdom, and resources.   Inconvenience yourself to help someone.   I am a brown eyed, brown haired woman. 
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