Did you want to be seen as a beautiful woman?

[Alana Ashleigh]

We just have longer legs than they do.

🤣

I hated doing the sit and reach in gym class. I couldn't pass that one with long legs. 😆

[Sarah B ✅]

Hi Everyone

For me, I guess the only thing I had in my mind and that was; "I wanted or longed to be female".  I never looked at magazines and say to myself; "that is what I would like to look like".  I was practical in that sense.  I never worried about this aspect for myself.  Yes, I looked at other girls and females sometimes and say they looked "pretty" and I guess in some small vein I just wanted to be pretty and feminine to a certain degree and I certainly did not want to be beautiful, not that I ever thought about it.

Anyway, when I changed my life around there was never the time to ponder that aspect of my life.  I just lived as any other female in society.  I never even worried about how I looked, others just saw me as a female and I never questioned even that.

So no I do not want to be beautiful.  I just want to be me.

Best Wishes Always
Sarah B
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[Stottie Girl]

When I started my transition I just wanted to be seen as a woman and be one of the girls. I feel i succeeded

I was kind of lucky here, I get all my features from my mother, I also looked more like my mother as a guy, than my father. I started HRT at age 19, so when the hormones did there work, i began to look more like my mother. I have my mothers figure, even our breast size is similar, since I am a bit taller and a slightly bigger build.. my mother wears a 34 bra band, where I wear a 36 band size.

When I was 22 years old, my mother showed me a photo of herself at age 22, we could have been twins.

Now since I am a married woman, I do want to be seen as beautiful woman by my husband. He does find me sexually attractive and do love dressing up for him.

As I age, my mother has aged well, I hope I do as well, she looks good woman in her early 60's. She did have her breasts done to firm things up, she went for D cup to a E cup. Honestly as I approach 40, i am thinking of having my breasts done as well also going from a D cup to an E cup to firm things up.

That's like me. I have all my features from my mum bar my blue eyes which are from my dad. We look very alike, there is no doubting we are family. Particularly when I see early pictures of her. My mums cousins moved to Canada and their daughters (not sure what relation that is to me) also look nearly identical to us. Genetics are weird.

My mum is 79 but she still looks like she's in her 60's so I hope I have that gene too!

E cup boobs? Not for me, I'm happy with my DD or D (I liked being C in fact, I think that might be better really)

[Asche]

I did not want to.  I am quite happy to see someone that looks like a woman when I look in the mirror.  A non-beautiful, old woman.  But not a man.  (Although no matter what you look like, you'll get misgendered sometimes.  People are just .....)

Besides, being seen as "old" and "ugly" means that I don't have obnoxious men trying to hit me up, which, since I'm not attracted to men, I count as a plus.  But I still can hang out with other women and be seen as one of them.   (Down with lookism!)

[Dawn Kellie]

As a human i judge, it's just the way things are. I try very hard to not let my judgment interfere with my actions. The mentaly challenged don't do this. No matter what i do someone will think I'm lacking in some way. I'm to tall, my jaw line is to masculine, my feet are to big, and on and on. If I'm comfortable with how I look, my wife still loves me and I have friends I can be myself with not only will I be beautiful I will be rich beyond Elon Musk.
If he offered me half his money I'd still take it. I can be philosophical but not stupid

[Lori Dee ✅]

If he offered me half his money I'd still take it.

I'd settle for the taxes he doesn't pay.

😁